Our 2 Cents Vol. 24

This installment of Our 2 Cents is a deep dive into what happens when boundaries, honesty, and consequences collide.

From open relationships to caregiver burnout, inheritance drama to cheating fallout—we unpack the emotional layers and offer real strategies for protecting your peace. We don’t sugarcoat, but we do bring both laughter and perspective.

If you’re navigating tough conversations in love, family, or money—this one’s got something for you.

Chapters

• 0:00 Cold Open: “Crazy Work” Cheating Rant
• 0:38 Welcome Back And Gym Banter
• 2:46 Parenting Moments And Disney Dreams
• 5:56 LA Sports Highs And Lows
• 10:35 Sleepytime Tea And Reading Streaks
• 14:40 Lifts, PRs, And Halloween Candy Negotiations
• 17:45 Our Two Cents: Speakerphone Lie At The Bowling Alley
• 22:15 Open Relationship Backfire And Ego Bruise
• 27:20 Caretaking Boundaries With Mother-In-Law
• 31:28 Inheritance, Entitlement, And Ironclad Wills
• 36:05 “Family Home” Myth And Firm Boundaries
• 41:05 Cheater’s Clothes Heist And Counseling Meltdown
• 47:12 Comments Of The Week And Gender War Jabs

Transcript

Cold Open: “Crazy Work” Cheating Rant

SPEAKER_03 0:00

First you convince me for you first you convince me for us to work it out. Right. Then you convince me to go to counseling. Right. And then when we get in counseling, you defend him and fault me for you being caught and for me for him getting a divorce too when you both were married persons.

SPEAKER_04 0:16

Crazy work. Crazy work.

SPEAKER_03 0:18

Crazy work.

SPEAKER_04 0:19

Crazy work.

SPEAKER_03 0:38

Hey everybody, and welcome back to another weekly episode of the Life After I Do podcast.

SPEAKER_05 0:43

Doo doo doo doo doo.

SPEAKER_03 0:45

Wow. That was look laster. You wanna try that again?

SPEAKER_05 0:49

I I'm trying to keep it short.

SPEAKER_03 0:50

I listen.

SPEAKER_05 0:52

What?

SPEAKER_03 0:53

I want it.

SPEAKER_05 0:54

Okay. I'ma give it to you. Oh my gosh.

SPEAKER_03 1:00

I'ma give it to you. You know what I mean.

SPEAKER_05 1:02

I'ma give it to you. Go ahead.

SPEAKER_03 1:09

Okay, that's it. And then end scene. That's what we talked about. Keep it short and sweet. That's it. All right. How's it going? Hey Booskies. Hi, Booskies. How's it going?

SPEAKER_05 1:20

It's going, girl.

SPEAKER_03 1:22

Why you say it like that?

SPEAKER_05 1:23

Life and life and my leg are still sore from Sunday. That's terrible. Crazy. It's because you it's because you had me go on that damn stairmaster yesterday. Stairmaster is good for you. Yeah, but I did a stairmaster on Sunday.

SPEAKER_03 1:34

And you legit stayed on the stairmaster for 11 minutes.

SPEAKER_05 1:37

12 minutes. Well, it's not my fault. I had planned to be on there for as long as I'm not sure.

SPEAKER_03 1:42

You could have just gotten on the treadmill.

SPEAKER_05 1:45

I had planned to be on the stairmaster for as long as you're gonna be on the stairmaster, but it was taken, so I had to wait for her to finish.

SPEAKER_03 1:50

And then there were two empty ones side by side, and I asked if you wanted to go get those.

SPEAKER_05 1:54

Mind you, it wasn't my cardio day, so I was just there for emotional support. I didn't need that.

unknown 1:59

Okay.

SPEAKER_05 1:59

I was there for you, boo. So I want you to know that I was there for you. You know, thank you.

SPEAKER_03 2:04

I appreciate the my week has been a wee week.

SPEAKER_05 2:07

Life is life, but we're gonna remain positive and hope for the best.

SPEAKER_03 2:12

We know the best is coming. Now we're not hoping for the best. We know the best is on its way.

SPEAKER_05 2:17

You said yes to the dress, and I said yes to that ass.

SPEAKER_03 2:19

Okay. Anyway, the best is on its way. The best is yet to come. Okay. Okay. Remember, we gotta rephrase, you gotta put, you gotta put a new scope on it. You gotta put a loot, a new lens on it. Stop touching me. Put a new lens on it. Wow. Okay. So what was the highlight of your week?

SPEAKER_05 2:39

Um probably when I hit that 215 for um for seven.

Parenting Moments And Disney Dreams

SPEAKER_03 2:45

That was good on bench.

SPEAKER_05 2:46

Yeah. That was really nice.

SPEAKER_03 2:48

You were shook at the Yeah.

SPEAKER_05 2:50

Because I had, you know, I can hit the 225 for like four. So I've been trying to work on that. Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 2:54

I've never seen it.

SPEAKER_05 2:56

You were there. You were playing.

SPEAKER_02 3:01

I don't record.

SPEAKER_05 3:03

It's just a thing that like I get in my head. So that's probably that was one of the highlights. But no, actually, I take that back. Okay. You want to revise it?

SPEAKER_03 3:10

Okay, what?

SPEAKER_05 3:11

The highlight of my week is my uh the depth I get on my hack squad now. That's it.

SPEAKER_03 3:16

I haven't seen the video.

SPEAKER_05 3:18

And I'd record that.

SPEAKER_03 3:20

Oh, okay.

SPEAKER_05 3:21

And uh um, but I have we have all of our gym friends confirmed. So I'm gonna take her word. Which one? Uh I don't know her name. What'd she look like? Marlena's friend is really strong.

SPEAKER_03 3:31

Jen?

SPEAKER_05 3:32

Not Jen. I haven't seen Jen. I asked about Jen today. I said, where's Jen? Jin's my buddy.

SPEAKER_03 3:37

Okay. I'll I'll talk. I'll talk to her.

SPEAKER_05 3:39

Okay, anyway. Not you trying to verify, might me. Um, yeah, I mean, so I mean, another how that I my my daughter, my daughter has been uber affectionate this week. And I said, I don't know if it's because you've been in trouble and you're trying to get your way back out.

SPEAKER_03 3:54

But ma'am, I'm just saying. She's been turning it up on you. I don't need you to be kissing on me like this. She became me, she was like, I dismiss daddy so much. That's what she told me. I dismiss my dad so much.

SPEAKER_05 4:05

She misses you. Like today, today when we um we got her from school. Dad, oh, I missed you so much. Oh, I'm so happy you heard you didn't go to work today. Oh, dad. I said, Phoenix, you you doing too much.

SPEAKER_03 4:22

You're doing all that, and you're still not gonna get your screens back. That's crazy. Right.

SPEAKER_05 4:26

You still didn't get your screens back.

SPEAKER_03 4:29

That's crazy work.

SPEAKER_05 4:30

And then she was like, so I'm going to Kendall's house Saturday, right?

SPEAKER_03 4:35

She always tries to like butter you up and then like try to confirm some shit, either she planned or she wanted to do it. You know what she told me on the drive to practice? She was like, Oh, mom, I just want you to know, me and Gabby were talking about um a play date, Gabby from school, and she was like, and we were kind of thinking, like, maybe we can do like a Disney cruise. I was on the phone with my sister. My sister said, Did she say a Disney cruise for a play date? I said, Yes, she did. Yes, she did. In my mind, I was like, girl, you don't see Joe.

SPEAKER_05 5:07

That's crazy. Because today she was like, earlier, she was like, Dad, you remember how like me and Mila, like we had a play date last summer? Like, can we have another play date? But like this time we go somewhere like like Disneyland.

SPEAKER_03 5:25

Between Disneyland, what'd she tell you the other day? Disney World. Disney World. She said, no, I've been, she was like, I've been to Disneyland already a lot of times. I want to go to Disney World.

SPEAKER_05 5:35

I said, I said, not not pinkies up. But when she said up at eight is a wild.

SPEAKER_03 5:41

She said a play date and they were thinking on it. Like, like they were just at school kicking it, and like, you know what'd be great? We should do a play date on a Disney cruise.

LA Sports Highs And Lows

SPEAKER_05 5:50

Hold up. I messed up my week. Why? Because it's Wednesday, so it's been a couple days now. Mm-hmm. Since go Dodgers. Go blue.

SPEAKER_03 5:59

Bye.

unknown 6:00

Ha ha!

SPEAKER_03 6:01

Congratulations to the Dodgers.

SPEAKER_05 6:03

Y'all know we've we from Southern California, and I support everything Southern California except for the except for the football teams. I am an Eagles fan, go Birds. And to whoever that was in the in the comments somewhere, why are you talking about my cowboys? Because I don't like y'all. Never have, never will. Go birds. Um, but shoutouts to my Dodgers.

SPEAKER_03 6:22

They had me stressed out. I think you had everyone stressed out. My friend posted a video of her husband, and I mean he almost burned a hole straight through the floor from the pacing. I said, girl, y'all gonna need to replace your floors when he's done.

SPEAKER_05 6:37

Between games five and seven, I aged 20 years. Because Lord knows I can't, even though when we won Halloween night, I I kept saying, like, I kept saying, like, we just gotta get through the seventh evening.

SPEAKER_03 6:52

We just we just need to get through.

SPEAKER_05 6:54

If we could just put that seven. We will be okay. For the longest time, six, seven was early. It was on the dog, it was on the Dodgers' ass. Okay, because that sixth and seven inning was tearing our ass up. But we won. You know, uh Kershaw won out of champions. Yes, congratulations on retirement. Um, shout out to you know what, hold up, side note. What? Shout outs to Mookie Betts.

SPEAKER_03 7:25

Okay, why would you?

SPEAKER_05 7:26

Or short stop? Okay, it's not even about him. I saw a picture of his wife. I said, I see you. Goodbye.

SPEAKER_03 7:34

Black Queens Forever? Stop it. Stop it.

SPEAKER_02 7:39

Stop it. I said, Mrs. Bet. Okay, Mrs. Mrs. Mrs. I said, cocaine.

SPEAKER_05 7:46

Okay. And the other highlight of my week is that I don't know if it's true or not, but apparently somebody reported that Miss Iiko is single now. So if she comes calling, don't take it personal. I won't at all. Don't, don't, don't take it personal.

SPEAKER_03 8:07

Don't take it personal. I'm gonna send home all the all the support you need. Baby, baby, baby, baby, baby.

SPEAKER_05 8:13

But that's it. I was really, I was really, really happy that my Dodgers won. I even made a post that said that I'm so thankful to the Dodgers because I know these Lakers are finna piss me off.

SPEAKER_03 8:22

I know I saw that. The Lakers might surprise you.

SPEAKER_05 8:27

Okay. They've been playing well.

SPEAKER_03 8:29

See?

SPEAKER_05 8:30

But and LeBron ain't there. So it just proves my point that we can stop paying this man this money.

SPEAKER_03 8:35

Goodbye. What's your week, Booskies? My week was okay. I mean, it wasn't great because the Dodgers won? Okay, it was great because the Dodgers won.

SPEAKER_05 8:44

The Dodgers won. The Cowboys lost. The Giants lost. The commander. Oh my god. I feel so sorry for Jaden Daniels. I don't know who that is. That's the quarterback for the for the commanders. Oh, okay. He's a SoCal nature.

SPEAKER_03 8:56

The commanders?

SPEAKER_05 8:56

Yes, he's a SoCal native.

SPEAKER_03 8:58

Commanders? Yes. What team is that?

SPEAKER_05 9:00

They used to be the Redskins.

SPEAKER_03 9:01

Oh, okay. I know that. But I don't know who a commander is.

SPEAKER_05 9:04

He's a So-Cal native, I feel bad. I was like, is this- I do support people for the area, even though he's on that team. Oh. Um, it was a so sports-wise, it was because even the Lakers won. I said, yeah, I said, look at God. Bye, Maurice. Look at God. Goodbye. And then they had ice cube at the at the pair at the at the parade. I saw. LA, we up, baby. We up.

SPEAKER_03 9:27

Well, I'm happy you had a great sport uh field week, and that was the highlight of your week. Um, the highlight of my week was I made it through the week. Okay.

SPEAKER_05 9:38

Yeah. You've been very cheeky around here. Huh? Very cheeky.

SPEAKER_03 9:42

What do you mean?

SPEAKER_05 9:43

You've been letting your cheeks out. Oh my gosh. Walking around very cheeky.

SPEAKER_03 9:47

No, I haven't.

SPEAKER_05 9:48

And I said, I'm picking up when she's laying down.

SPEAKER_03 9:50

No. No.

SPEAKER_05 9:51

But then I don't know, because you've been setting me up with your sleepy time tea.

Sleepytime Tea And Reading Streaks

SPEAKER_03 9:56

Okay, so I drink, I've I've gotten back on my tea regimen before bed, and I drink like a cup of tea before bed. I do my reading and I do a cup of tea. And I drink um, I think it's called celestial or something like that, but it's sleepy time tea. And it really does like relax you. So last night I was making tea and I asked if he wanted a cup of tea. And he was like, um, I'll try the sleepy time tea. So I gave him the sleepy time tea and I and I drank stress relief last night. Were you stressed? Because I was I was knocked out. I know, I know. And it only took like 15, it was like 15 minutes. And he looks over at me and he was like, I think, I think that tea is hitting because I'm really tired all of a sudden. I just feel really relaxed. I was like, because of the herbs and the tea. And so then I go to take her to her room. And when I came back in, he was knocked out. Like REM sleep knocked out. And you got up this morning and you was like, that was some good sleep.

SPEAKER_05 10:55

Oh, I don't even remember turning over in the middle of the night.

SPEAKER_03 10:59

The sleepy time tea. The sleepy time tea would do that. But see, I took like my the stress relief that I took, it was it was just kind of like calming. But when I was doing my reading, I felt like I had more energy to get through. Because I read six chapters last night before bed. Oh, I know. You were you were in you were in another dimension.

SPEAKER_00 11:20

Yep.

SPEAKER_03 11:21

Between you and your daughter, I was like, my sleep is gonna hit any minute now. Any minute now. And then I kept going chapter to chapter to chapter to chapter, and then I looked up and I was like, damn, I done read six chapters already. I'm not gonna do that.

SPEAKER_05 11:34

I just remember opening my eyes and I looked at my phone, which is my alarm clock, and I said, Oh, it's five o'clock. I said, but it's really six. Six, uh-huh. That's why I'm up.

SPEAKER_03 11:46

Yeah. Because of the time change. So that was a good night's sleep. You slept through the night. You slept through the night.

SPEAKER_05 11:54

So now I figure if I can get some sleepy time and some cut, woo!

SPEAKER_03 11:59

I might sleep to noon. Bye. I might sleep to noon. No, but you you took the last serving of sleepy time and it took everything in me, but I really wanted you to experience it because I was really looking forward.

SPEAKER_05 12:13

When your child's a wheel here, I go get some.

SPEAKER_03 12:15

Thank you. Thank you. That's get two boxes. Because between you and your daughter. Yeah.

SPEAKER_05 12:22

Oh, we were just mumbling.

SPEAKER_03 12:24

Anyways, yeah, I had me, I had a good week.

SPEAKER_05 12:26

That's good. Because I'm your all your weeks are good because I'm your husband, right?

SPEAKER_03 12:30

I had a decent week.

SPEAKER_05 12:32

That's crazy.

SPEAKER_03 12:32

It was it was good. Um, nothing too eventful. I did hit a new PB.

SPEAKER_00 12:37

Okay.

SPEAKER_03 12:38

In um personal best. A new personal best.

SPEAKER_00 12:41

Of what?

SPEAKER_03 12:42

Um, it was 335 for four on deads.

SPEAKER_00 12:49

Okay.

SPEAKER_03 12:49

Um, because I'm working, I'm trying to work my way up to uh like a six prep range. Um so I got to four. And honestly, I probably, I honestly probably could have done five. It's just that I started losing my bracing. And when it comes to deadlifts, like I try not, that's like one lift. I try not to push it, push it. Like when I feel like I'm getting lazy in the form, um push it real good. Yeah, bye. I try not to get, I try not to push it. Um, so that was really good. And uh yeah, that was pretty much the highlight your week. And just and then my baby, of course. And her magnificent planning.

SPEAKER_05 13:29

Oh, yeah.

SPEAKER_03 13:30

Yeah, and trying to navigate.

SPEAKER_05 13:31

She had a great Halloween.

SPEAKER_03 13:32

Her magnificent planning. Yeah, she had a really good Halloween. She's been trying to eat candy every day since. Because now she's a little bit more aware. So she knows, like, listen, we ain't gonna keep playing these games where y'all let me go trick-or-treating and not let me have the damn candy. Okay. Cause every day, every day since, can I can I please get some of my candy?

SPEAKER_05 13:54

No, sit your down.

SPEAKER_03 13:56

What's she gonna get this morning? The cotton candy. Right.

SPEAKER_05 13:58

Come on, I'm gonna take this card.

Lifts, PRs, And Halloween Candy Negotiations

SPEAKER_03 13:59

Girl, I said if you don't go put that shit back, don't I was like, girl, don't don't don't piss me off. Um, but today we have an hour two cents episode. Okay. You guys are in for a treat because you're getting a back-to-back hour two cent episode. Um, and and be on the lookout. I mean, I guess we'll talk about that at the end of the pod, but we have some other things that are gonna be happening um that you can join us in with for, I believe it's this week or next week, but we'll try to get into that later, if I can remember. Um, but we're gonna go ahead and hop on right into our two cents. Okay, so let's see. This one says, um, sorry, I had to turn my ringer up just in case. This one says, am I the jerk for putting my sister's husband on speakerphone to expose his lies? Okay. My sister Brie, who's a 29-year-old female, has been complaining for months that her husband Kyle, who's 31, never helps with the baby because he's too quote-unquote exhausted from work. Oh, I understand that. He claims he's working late constantly. Yesterday he called me asking if I could pick up his package from a gaming store so his wife, my sister, wouldn't find out. Red flag. I asked him what he was doing after work. He said it was he was still at the office, but I could hear a crowd, music, and what sounded like bowling pins. So I put him on speaker and I said, It's weird office sounds. Do you guys normally bowl during the quarterly reports now? He went silent. Then he hung up. Two hours later, Brie called, crying because Kyle accused me of trying to ruin their marriage and plant distrust within their relationship. I told her the truth. He was clearly lying, and she deserves better, honestly. Now my mom says that I should have stayed out of married people's issues. Am I the jerk? Yeah. You think so? Yeah. I mean, even though he was lying. Stay out of his business. He was lying. He no, okay, here's the thing. It could have been an office retreat. He he invited you into the business when No, he asked you to pick up a package.

SPEAKER_05 16:15

He didn't ask her nothing else. Stay out of grown foe's business. Stay out of grown foe's business.

SPEAKER_03 16:20

But that's her sister.

SPEAKER_05 16:21

Okay, and I don't care. You think I care? If I call your sister, which I'm not. I think I would. I call my I would call my favorite sister.

SPEAKER_03 16:30

Oh my gosh. Don't start with that. I wouldn't call it. Don't start with that.

SPEAKER_05 16:33

If I call her, I don't but see, she wouldn't put me on blast.

SPEAKER_03 16:36

Who? My favorite one. Both of my sisters would put you on blast. Are you kidding me? But both of my sisters wouldn't couldn't wait. If there was any minor slip-up or any type of like second-guessing, I don't believe that was my favorite one.

SPEAKER_05 16:51

Now, with the other one, yes.

SPEAKER_03 16:54

You don't think my sister would be the first to call me and be like, hey, I could be wrong.

SPEAKER_05 16:59

We can ask her. She follows us. Maybe she'll comment on it and say, I don't think she would. I think she would like wrong on what's going on. And I tell her the truth. I'm doing some shit she don't want me to do. She not she don't support my gaming habits.

SPEAKER_03 17:13

Okay, it's not about the gaming though, but if you were doing something that's like dishonest or something, I'm dishonest.

SPEAKER_05 17:19

I'm tell I'm lying about gaming.

Our Two Cents: Speakerphone Lie At The Bowling Alley

SPEAKER_03 17:21

Okay. All right, here we go. My boyfriend's hold on, no response. What? About of what? For me? Yeah. I mean, it's her sister. I mean, I don't disagree with what she did. It's not a Mariffe's business. Yeah, I guess so. My boyfriend's mad at me because he opened up the relationship and got no dates. So am I the asshole for how I responded? Me and my boyfriend, both 37, have been dating for just over three years. Prior to this, I was single for eight years. Overall, it's been a healthy relationship. We're both independent with our jobs, living situation, etc. I do love spending time with him. I don't really have any complaints. However, something that startled me was back about six months ago, him saying that he wanted to open the relationship up, meaning going on dates and sleeping with other women. I've never been in a dynamic like this before, so I naturally had a lot of questions. He told me that I could also go out on dates with other men and sleep with them. I honestly was a little skeptical at first, but after doing some research and having time to think, I agreed. He had told me that if at any point I wasn't comfortable, we could stop and close the relationship up again. One of the rules was we don't discuss with each other what the other is doing or who they're doing it with, like the dates and stuff. I signed up to a dating app and within a few days I had over 500 plus likes. And it's been a pretty steady since then. So I started matching with people, texting, and arranging dates. On average, I go on about one to two dates a month. There are also some people in similar dynamics of open relationships that I'm going on dates with and also sleeping with regularly. I quite like the fact that everything is so non-committal. So even though I was skeptical at first, I am enjoying the open relationship. As decided from before, I hadn't told my boyfriend about any of this. I was at my boyfriend's house the other day and my phone was on the kitchen counter. He saw my notifications and then proceeded to go through my phone and read messages, including going through the dating app and whatnot. To say he was angry was an understatement. Turns out he opened the relationship up to take out on a date a younger colleague at his workplace who misread his idea of a date as just work lunch. He then openly told me that he wanted to see if it would work out with her so he could ultimately leave me for her. However, she didn't want, but she didn't want him, and it seems like no one else does either. In the last six months, he's had a few rough dates, but no one additional to sleep with. I feel somewhat embarrassed for him. Uh he demanded we instantly close the relationship, and I told him that maybe we should just end things or at least take a break. He was outraged and called me all kinds of names. But he was the one who wanted this dynamic. So what's the problem? I left, and as I walked home, I contemplated fully breaking it off with him. He's been blowing my phone up, and I'm not quite sure what to say. But am I being the asshole?

SPEAKER_05 20:33

Hell no.

SPEAKER_03 20:34

No. Look here. I feel like we've had a story similar to this before.

SPEAKER_05 20:37

We probably have, it don't matter. Yeah. People play stupid games.

SPEAKER_03 20:41

Win stupid prizes. Look here. And it's always the man who wants to open the relationship, but for some frivolous shit of because he's seen another woman and he wants it to be okay for him to go sleep with her. And then when it doesn't work out the way he thinks it's gonna work out, now he's like, oh no, but it's working out for you. It wasn't supposed to work out for you.

SPEAKER_05 20:57

This won't always work out for her.

SPEAKER_03 21:01

She has a vagina. It's always gonna work out for her.

SPEAKER_05 21:03

She could throw a vagina in a room full of sharks and ten of things. Really? Goodbye. They're gonna respond. Goodbye. Look here. To me, I would just say leave them. Because obviously now his ego is hurt. I think this is hilarious. Why? Because as men, look here, as men, we we have an understanding of what our odds are when you're out there in that marketplace.

SPEAKER_03 21:26

In the marketplace. In the marketplace. Right. Okay.

SPEAKER_05 21:31

And if he wouldn't have seen the phone, she would have just kept doing it anyway. And it seems like she's enjoying herself. She said she is.

SPEAKER_03 21:39

So live your life. She said that she didn't think that she would really like be comfortable with the dynamic. But after doing research and now actually being in it, the first thing she said is, I like how it's non-committal. We both get to do our own things, but the problem is that you're not doing the thing that you thought you were going to get to do.

SPEAKER_05 21:58

And it's not her, it's not her issue.

SPEAKER_03 22:01

He he brought But him saying that I was hoping him admitting that she was a placeholder. That's why I would leave.

Open Relationship Backfire And Ego Bruise

SPEAKER_05 22:12

And that's why I would leave because he literally uh he literally set you to the side just in case to see if he has something with her. So why did you feel bad about leaving? He was gonna leave you anyway.

SPEAKER_03 22:24

Oh wow. Now that's the part that got me. He said I wanted to see if things would work out with her, then that way I could leave you for her. So you have me as a placeholder. You could have just said that we could have been friends with benefits, and I probably would have been okay with that, and we wouldn't even have to go through all this.

SPEAKER_05 22:41

Right now, no, she's the only benefit he got.

SPEAKER_03 22:45

Right, because she said, she said, I kind of felt bad for him because nobody wants him.

SPEAKER_05 22:49

He ain't got no sauce.

SPEAKER_03 22:50

She said, she said the girl didn't want him at work, and quite frankly, nobody else does either. He ain't got no sauce. So that one further lets me know, like, you don't even have value out there on the marketplace.

SPEAKER_05 23:01

But why are you with him?

SPEAKER_03 23:02

So I don't need to be here. Look, I don't need to be.

SPEAKER_05 23:04

If don't nobody else want him, why are you?

SPEAKER_03 23:07

I'm not into charity like that.

SPEAKER_05 23:10

Really? That's crazy. Calling him a charity is crazy now. I don't want to go that way.

SPEAKER_03 23:15

Now that I now that I know what his stats are.

SPEAKER_05 23:17

Yeah, it's pretty bad.

SPEAKER_03 23:18

It's pretty bad.

SPEAKER_05 23:20

It's kind of like his record's almost like as bad as the cowboys.

SPEAKER_03 23:23

Okay, I'm dead. Um am I the jerk for not wanting to take care of my sick mother-in-law when my husband works nights?

SPEAKER_05 23:32

Okay, let's get into it.

SPEAKER_03 23:34

My husband's 34 and I'm 31, and we've been married for five years. My mother-in-law, who's 67, recently had hip surgery and needs someone around while she recovers. He works nights, so he suggested uh she stay with us for a few weeks so I could quote unquote help her during the day. The thing is, I work from home. I'm in meetings constantly, and my job is demanding. I told him that I don't mind visiting her on the weekends or even bringing her food, but I cannot be her nurse. He got frustrated and said, she's family and it'll just be temporary. But temporary has a way of becoming months in our family. And his mom already made comments about how quote unquote women should take care of the family. When I said no, he accused me of being cold-hearted. Now his siblings think that I'm leaving her to suffer, even though not one of them have offered to take her in. So am I being the jerk for refusing to be her caretaker?

SPEAKER_05 24:36

I'm gonna say 50-50. Now, here's why. I'm gonna say 50-50. I don't think you gotta, you ain't gotta bathe her.

SPEAKER_03 24:44

I mean, you never know. You know how severe that hip surgery is. It's your hips. Yeah, she can she can sit down and bathe herself. I mean, I don't know. With comments like that, she might be the kind to be like, I can't do much for myself.

SPEAKER_05 24:56

Well, here's the wild part. I don't think if he has siblings, hold up. Wait a minute. Because why are they not helping out?

SPEAKER_03 25:06

They haven't even volunteered, but then they got they want to leave a comment. And and do these siblings have spouses? It wouldn't matter. I'm a spouse, so I don't give a damn if they do have spouses. That's still your mother, too. Well, because I'm gonna say right now, there's two other eyes.

SPEAKER_05 25:19

Well, here's the thing, here's the thing. Right now, I knew your mother wouldn't want me taking care of her, so ain't a problem. And my mom wouldn't want me taking care of either, so we safe.

SPEAKER_03 25:27

Bye. We safe. I think we're safe. No, I took I took care of my mom when she got hurt at work. Remember? We went and picked her up from my auntie's house. Yes, and she couldn't walk, and she was here for like two months because she couldn't be by herself.

SPEAKER_05 25:43

Was I working then?

SPEAKER_03 25:45

You you were always working.

SPEAKER_05 25:47

I probably started working a lot so I wouldn't be around. Bye.

SPEAKER_03 25:50

But I had to help her like walk upstairs. I had to help her with her little walker. Like, I mean, but that's my mom, you know? So yes, good for you. Goodbye.

SPEAKER_05 26:00

But I don't I don't think she's been a jerk at all. No, I don't think I especially because like she has a job.

SPEAKER_03 26:04

Like that's the thing. She has a job. But here's the thing: this is what people get misconscrewed. People who work from home, they think because people work from home that they can just like they can just like put their their job that's on the computer on hold and they can just walk away and do now. Granted, some people's work from home jobs might be that way. Others, it's like you're in an office, but you're just at home. And you can't just be like, okay, well, you work from home, so you can be there to take care of her.

SPEAKER_05 26:31

She has meetings, like you said, she has meetings and something like her job is demanding, you know.

SPEAKER_03 26:35

Yes. I mean, but on the other hand, on the other hand.

SPEAKER_05 26:38

Again, I say, I'm gonna go back to this. He has siblings.

SPEAKER_03 26:42

He does.

SPEAKER_05 26:42

And if she has surgery, she got some type of insurance. I'm pretty sure they can work out something to get her a little uh in-home care nurse for some hours.

SPEAKER_03 26:50

I was gonna say that too, but also it's like how much care. I think I think her biggest concern isn't so much of the care, I think it's the amount of time that she's gonna be there because she said, because he said it's temporary. She said, but in our family, temporary always equals months.

SPEAKER_05 27:06

Right. You know? And then and and then you know how old people are. They put extras on everything.

SPEAKER_03 27:10

And they try to soak it up.

SPEAKER_05 27:11

Oh, they put extras on everything.

Caretaking Boundaries With Mother-In-Law

SPEAKER_03 27:12

And they try to soak it up. Because I'm thinking, I'm thinking, okay, you just need someone to be around you just in case. So I can be in the office, you can be downstairs, I can set you up with lunch, you can sit there and watch your shows. Like, I shouldn't have to like be right there, you know. So if I'm working for the.

SPEAKER_05 27:27

The thing is, if you have hip surgery, you gotta move somewhat. Right. And you gotta rehab somewhat. Right. So I shouldn't have to cater to you hand and foot. Right. You still do some things yourself. That's what I'm saying. But I don't think she's wrong at all. Shit. Okay. I know I wouldn't do it. Bye. Yes, you would. No, I wouldn't. Yes, you would.

SPEAKER_03 27:43

Okay. Am I the asshole for refusing to share my inheritance with my siblings who are now threatening to sue me for undue influence? Okay. Um, my father passed away a few months ago, and in his will, he left his entire estate to me, explicitly disinheriting my brother Mark, who's 40, and my sister Jenna, who's 38. The thing is, 10 years ago, my father gave them both um$150,$150,000 each as an advance on their inheritance to start businesses because they begged and begged. He had a lot of money back then, so it wasn't much to him. Both of them blew it within two years vacations, cars, etc. And he and they both had the nerve to come back for more. When he refused, they got cruel. They stopped visiting him, wouldn't let him see his grandkids, and badmouthed him to the entire family, claiming he was a um a miser who was hoarding his money. It's his money. I don't understand that. Um, I was the one who was there for him. I took him to his doctor's appointments, helped him with his finances without ever touching a dime for myself, um, unlucky unlike my siblings, because I have a great job that I've worked hard for, and was with him in hospice when he died. It was just me and him at the end. His will is ironclawed, written by his longtime lawyer, and includes a clause stating they received their share during his lifetime. Mark and Jenna are furious. They've been blowing up my phone saying that I quote unquote poisoned him against them. They're um bad mouthing me to the family, and I'm getting phone calls from relatives that I should help them out. Now, now they've hired a lawyer, and today I was served papers. They're threatening to contest the will, claiming I took advantage of our father in his old age and used undue influence to get him to cut them out of the will. They offered to drop the lawsuit if I just give them both$100,000 each. I told them to get lost and that I would never give them a single cent of our father's money after how they treated him. I am so angry that I can barely speak. Am I the asshole for? Telling them that I see them in court and refusing to give them anything. I'm honestly worried that fighting this in court will take more in legal fees than just paying them out. But I'm also angry. And uh that's why I need an outside opinion because I've lost all perspective.

SPEAKER_05 30:16

Hell no, you're not the asshole. Take that ass to court. Look here. You uh apparently your father left you the money to defend yourself.

SPEAKER_03 30:22

That's hard.

SPEAKER_05 30:23

So while they come out of pocket.

SPEAKER_03 30:24

Honestly, I would have rather pay it to the lawyer than to pay it to you.

SPEAKER_05 30:26

So why they come out of pocket, because I don't think they're gonna win anyway. If you said he had an ironclad wheel.

SPEAKER_03 30:31

Yeah, yeah. So they can't. And in the wheel, it says that he gave them their inheritance during our living chance.

SPEAKER_05 30:36

And then I'm pretty sure his lawyer will testify that he was an influence to change the wheel, and that you can also testify, and they can probably verify that they were both given the 150 uh Kep prior to him passing. Yep. And then I'm pretty sure you have family that will be witnesses to say that no, they have not been around or in his life since that point. Yeah man, fuck them.

SPEAKER_03 31:00

Well, I always find it funny that when there's money involved and people die in the family.

SPEAKER_05 31:05

They chase, we switch up.

Inheritance, Entitlement, And Ironclad Wills

SPEAKER_03 31:07

People get crazy. They switch up. People get real crazy. Money just make money makes people do fine. I did that firsthand. I know. That's what I'm saying. We've experienced it. And money just makes people, money makes people like some people. I'm not gonna say all people. Money makes people just like I don't know, lose a part of themselves, or just like their true self comes out if they think that they're due like some money that they didn't necessarily, especially money that they didn't necessarily earn.

SPEAKER_05 31:37

That ain't theirs.

SPEAKER_03 31:38

That ain't theirs. Like that's crazy. You do realize how do you know? You do realize that even though you're his children, you're not like entitled to his money. It's still his money.

SPEAKER_05 31:49

But they they were thinking that, oh, everything's gonna be split three ways. You know that's that's what they were thinking. Yeah, of course. But Pop said, no, y'all had y'all.

SPEAKER_03 31:56

And you know what?

SPEAKER_05 31:57

And they probably also think like you don't even need it, you have a good job. You're doing well for yourself. What do you need this money for? What do you need the money for? Watch, so you can blow it again?

SPEAKER_03 32:04

Yeah. On a Yukon. Bye. But you always have, if there's multiple kids and there's like parents who have done well financially, I feel like there is always that one child who makes it their life mission to not have to depend on their parents' money as they get older. And then you have the other kids who are like who grow up knowing like my parents are loaded, and uh, yeah, they're gonna always be there.

SPEAKER_05 32:30

That's what we have messed up because Miss Phoenix thinks we're loaded. We're not. I tried to tell her, but she thinks like I got it.

SPEAKER_03 32:37

I mean, it's not it's not her responsibility to like know at all, you know, but I don't want her to have the impression that we're like. I do. And no, she's like, I want her to think we broke.

SPEAKER_05 32:50

No, you don't want her to think we broke. We don't have to be broke. I just want her to think we're broke.

SPEAKER_03 32:54

Wait a minute. Wait, this is just a side note. We were driving one day, and from the backseat, she was in the backseat and the car was quiet. We weren't even talking, the music wasn't even playing. And out of nowhere, she said, Mommy, I said, Yes, Phoenix. Are we broke? And I was like, What? I was like, I said, Phoenix, do you think we're broke? No. I said, Well then why would you ask me that? Well, because somebody at school, uh, it was a little boy or something at school, um, was talking about like talking about some kids and like, oh, your mom, your mom and dad is broke, and like, you know, so she was like, Are we broke? And I was like, No, Phoenix. And she was like, but we're rich in love, right?

SPEAKER_05 33:32

Yes, very much. Rich in love.

SPEAKER_03 33:34

I said, Girl, we so rich in love.

SPEAKER_05 33:36

Right. Right.

SPEAKER_03 33:38

We so rich in love. She was she's hilarious. Um, okay, here we go. Am I the asshole for telling my husband's kids who are 24 and 22 that my house isn't their quote unquote family home, and it's not my fault. Their mother lost theirs.

SPEAKER_05 33:56

Damn. Okay. Come on. Come on now.

SPEAKER_03 33:59

I married my husband two years ago, and he has two kids, 24 and 22. The 24-year-old is a female and the 22 is a male. He had a very nasty divorce from his wife, um, or a very nasty divorce from their mom that was fought over the course of years. Part of the reason for the marriage ending was that she had a drug problem and blew through their savings and was running up credit cards that he didn't know about to pay for. The divorce finalized when the youngest was 16. She wanted the house in the divorce, which was a big part of the fight, and she ended up getting it. She immediately moved in her addict boyfriend and another couple that they used with, and the house ended up uh getting destroyed and falling into foreclosure, and then proceeded and they proceeded to squat in it and had to be forcibly removed. Because my husband and his ex ended up also having to file bankruptcy, he had been living in a friend's basement when I met him due to his credit being wrecked. Fast forward, we are married. He moves into my house. I got a prenuptial agreement. Um, he can't be on the mortgage because of his credit. Um, his ex and kids are living with grandparents. His kids and ex don't like me, and they refer to me as the, you know, bad word. The cunt. Uh-huh. But at this point, they're all adults. So I'm not gonna force anything on them. Grandparents recently had to sell their home and they are now living with their mom's friends. They asked if they could come in and move in with us, and I said, no. Hell no. Absolutely not. Both of them got angry and started telling me that this was their dad's home, and that makes this their family home too. And that it wasn't up to me if they could or could not live in our home. Test me. They started spouting off every insult you could think of. I interrupted them and told them that in fact, this was not their family home. And if they were looking for their family home, that they needed to go talk to their mom because she chopped it up and put it up her nose, and that was not my problem.

unknown 36:03

I love it.

“Family Home” Myth And Firm Boundaries

SPEAKER_03 36:04

Not chopped it up and put it up her nose. I love it. That's crazy word. I love it. Uh, a huge part of the reason I don't want them here is their mom has since uh squatted multiple places, forcing roommates to have uh to threaten her with eviction to get them out, and basically told the last one that she would leave for a certain amount of money. The kids and her are very close, and I don't want that happening in my house. We also have reason to believe that her oldest is also now using with her. Am I the asshole? Hell no. Absolutely not. As a board member of the petty community, I'm father is not even on this mortgage.

SPEAKER_05 36:44

Look here. As the board member of the petty committee, I think we 100% endorse your matches of your of your mother, chopped it up and snorted it up her nose.

SPEAKER_03 36:52

She chopped it up. She said, listen, don't come over here with that BS. If you're looking for your family childhood home, go and ask your mom who chopped it up and snorted it up her nose.

SPEAKER_05 37:02

Because in my mind, I'm thinking, hold on, I was just the cunt.

SPEAKER_03 37:06

Now you're asking a couple of nuts.

SPEAKER_05 37:07

Now you're trying to stay with the cunt?

SPEAKER_03 37:08

You don't like cunt. No, they're not trying to stay with the cunt. They're trying to come live with their father.

SPEAKER_05 37:11

Oh, but he lives with the cunt.

SPEAKER_03 37:13

But you're 24 and 22. Y'all can figure it out.

SPEAKER_05 37:15

This house is in my name.

SPEAKER_03 37:16

Yeah.

SPEAKER_05 37:16

Your dad not.

SPEAKER_03 37:17

And we have a prenup. Hold on, hold on. So even if we walk away, your daddy ain't getting shit.

SPEAKER_05 37:21

Hold on, hold on. I can put your daddy out because he's not on here either. Your daddy's not on the D.

SPEAKER_03 37:27

Your daddy is here by the skin of his skinny skin skin.

SPEAKER_05 37:29

Right. Now don't fuck up with your daddy got going on.

SPEAKER_03 37:33

I can't.

SPEAKER_05 37:33

This is crazy.

SPEAKER_03 37:34

But not them saying, like, that's my father's house. No, baby. Your daddy moved in with me. Your daddy moved in with me because he was living in the basement because your mother snorted y'all life away.

SPEAKER_05 37:46

Um, on a serious note, substance abuse is a serious matter.

SPEAKER_03 37:48

It's a very serious matter.

SPEAKER_05 37:50

I hope that they're that the brother and the mother get help if they're both using. Absolutely. Um on a petty note, bye. You're not that.

SPEAKER_03 37:59

You're definitely not the asshole. You have to protect, you're protecting you and your union with your husband, and you also are protecting your space. And I'm sure it's difficult for him as a father because those are still his children. You know what I'm saying? But they're also 24 and 22. So at some point, we're gonna have to start taking responsibility for our own selves.

SPEAKER_05 38:18

And I I hear what you're saying, babe, but it also kind of feels like they made their decision.

unknown 38:23

Yeah.

SPEAKER_05 38:24

Like they chose the mother.

SPEAKER_03 38:25

Well, that's what that's but that's what she's saying, that they're really close to their mom.

SPEAKER_05 38:28

They they they chose because that's and they granted that's their mother. Yeah, they're probably really close to their mother, and they chose the mother in the divorce, and they probably felt like the dad was at fault and and they probably feel guilty if they leave her. They probably felt like mom just needed help and dad wasn't willing to give her the help.

SPEAKER_03 38:42

Yeah. I mean, speculation, it could be a lot of things, but you know. But when I'm right, I'm right. But no, you are not the ass. But I love the petty. Yeah.

SPEAKER_05 38:53

I I I love the petty.

SPEAKER_03 38:55

Okay. Let's see if we got time for one more. We'll do one more. Let's see.

SPEAKER_05 39:00

Juicy.

SPEAKER_03 39:01

Here we go.

SPEAKER_05 39:02

Oh, did you do the one that the one that wrote in?

SPEAKER_03 39:06

We did it last week. And then there's another one for like next week.

SPEAKER_05 39:09

Okay.

SPEAKER_03 39:10

Um, let's see. Am I the asshole for robbing my wife's affair partner, which has now led to his divorce?

SPEAKER_05 39:20

Wait, hold on. What? Okay.

SPEAKER_03 39:22

You want me to read it again?

SPEAKER_05 39:23

No, let's get into it. Okay.

SPEAKER_03 39:25

I, 32, have been married to my soon-to-be ex-wife who's 30, Madison, for four years. Uh, we are currently in counseling, but it's not gonna work. About a year ago, I found out she was having an affair by coming home to their clothes in our living room and sounds coming from our bedroom.

SPEAKER_05 39:44

It was a whole contagious video, Nam.

Cheater’s Clothes Heist And Counseling Meltdown

SPEAKER_03 39:48

I lost it. I was getting my cricket bat out of the front closet when I stopped to think about consequences. I didn't want to go to jail. See, that's what see, he stopped himself. Instead, I took all their clothes and left quietly. I went to a friend's house, but not before throwing all the clothes in a McDonald's garbage can. I turned off my phone and got shitfaced with my buddy. His wife hosed us off in the morning. After I turned my phone back on, I had dozens of calls and texts from Madison. First scared because she got my updated flight information, then upset that I hadn't called her to let her know that I was coming home early, then freaked out that the house had been broken into, then crazy because she figured out it was me. They just got more deranged. The guy she was with is five inches shorter than me and about 60 pounds lighter. I don't know. Yeah, I don't know. So if he had taken my clothes, it would be obvious. He ended up calling his friend to get his spare keys from his house. Unfortunately for him, his wife smelled a rat and followed his friend back to my house where she saw him leaving in my clothes, the oversized clothes. Because remember, he took their clothes. So that was like his keys and stuff. Long story short, she took pictures and she had evidence of his infidelity, which caused their prenup to be canceled. Let's get into it, which cost him a lot of money. Um, it is all one big giant shit show.

SPEAKER_01 41:23

Let's watch it.

SPEAKER_03 41:24

Uh, it took a couple of months, but my wife convinced me to try and forgive her. We started going to counseling and we were working, working our way through it until recently. In a counseling session, she said that I was wrong to steal his wallet, phone, and car keys. She said that his divorce is costing him a lot of money and that I should have dealt with it in a more mature manner, and that it was my fault. I've never admitted to taking his stuff. To begin with, I was afraid he might call the cops. Then I didn't want to get her ammunition in the case she wanted a divorce. Now I just don't care. I told her that her cheating was the reason her boyfriend is getting divorced, and that I hope his ex takes him for everything. I'm still not living at home. I have my own apartment and I'm filing for a divorce. Now that I know how she feels, it's kind of a slap in the face that she is blaming me for the divorce.

SPEAKER_05 42:21

Man, fuck her. Look here. I don't understand this. Look here, people. You cannot tell people how to react to your shenanigans. To your shit. Yeah. You can't throw shit at someone and tell them it's chocolate.

SPEAKER_03 42:39

And tell them to relax, calm down. It's a treat. It ain't that bad.

SPEAKER_05 42:44

Look here, sir. Uh take her for everything she got. I'm happy. Look here.

SPEAKER_03 42:49

People act like karma ain't real. Karma is real. People act like there's no consequences to their actions. We tell our daughter accountability apparently is higher costs, so people ain't buying it.

SPEAKER_05 43:00

They take well they say you don't take accountability on TikTok. Um we tell our daughter all the time, every action has a consequence. Now you have to think about the possible consequences and whether you're gonna like them or not. So you while you two were having fun, thought you guys had your little sneaking link and your shit got pulled up because he came home early. Yep.

SPEAKER_03 43:20

Now and then not you getting upset that he came home early. Right. In the text message, talking about why you didn't let me know you were coming home early.

SPEAKER_05 43:28

Why you let me know you were coming?

SPEAKER_03 43:28

So you could have him out of the house before I got there? I mean, I guess that would have been courteous.

SPEAKER_05 43:33

Why you didn't let me know you was fucking him? We can play why why why didn't you all night?

SPEAKER_01 43:40

That's crazy work.

SPEAKER_05 43:41

That's crazy, that's crazy. That's crazy work.

SPEAKER_03 43:52

Well, yeah, because now you're def you're first you convince me for you first you convince me for us to work it out. Right. Then you convince me to go to counseling. Right. And then when we get in counseling, you defend him and fault me for you being caught and for me for him getting a divorce too when you both were married persons. Crazy work.

SPEAKER_04 44:11

Crazy work.

SPEAKER_03 44:12

Crazy work.

SPEAKER_04 44:13

Crazy work.

SPEAKER_03 44:14

Crazy Madison. Get your shit together.

SPEAKER_05 44:18

She's gonna take him for everything, and she deserves it. He's a lion's.

SPEAKER_03 44:23

Now he's not gonna be able to take me out to the fancy hotels that we normally would go to.

SPEAKER_05 44:27

It don't matter, Madison, because you ain't gonna be there soon anyway. And the fact, first of all, he must be doing quite well for himself. The fact that he's paying for a house and an apartment at the same time, sir. Call me.

SPEAKER_03 44:38

We we can work something out.

SPEAKER_05 44:39

I need I need to know what you're doing that you got a house in an apartment.

SPEAKER_03 44:43

We can work something out at the same time. I can't.

SPEAKER_05 44:46

Because I mean, hey, you know.

SPEAKER_03 44:49

Times is tough. I mean no. Times are tough. You know, these are challenging times. Hey, sometimes you gotta do something strange for a little change. Do something strange for a little change. I'm not listening I'm not above, I'm not above a good hustle.

SPEAKER_05 45:04

Right. Right.

SPEAKER_03 45:06

I can't. Whatever it was, don't say it. Let's just move into the comment of the week.

SPEAKER_05 45:14

Okay, the comment of the week.

SPEAKER_03 45:15

That's what I was gonna say.

SPEAKER_05 45:16

Comment of the week. This is my part, okay? This comment comes from the post about um he was in a long-distance relationship with a girl when she was sleeping in the hotel room with her friend that was.

SPEAKER_03 45:27

Well, her best, her best, her best friend is a male.

SPEAKER_05 45:29

Yeah, right.

SPEAKER_03 45:30

And she slept in the same bed nonsexually with him.

SPEAKER_05 45:34

And uh uh Mr. Donnie do it all on Instagram. He said, bro, don't even need to call a psychic hotline. And I was like, facts. How does he not see what's going on here?

SPEAKER_03 45:45

That's why you don't need to call a psychic hotline. He don't even need to call a psych because she's even if you don't think a man could you don't think a man and a woman could sleep in the same bed and not have relations? Relations. You don't you don't think a man and a woman can sleep in the same bed and not have relations.

SPEAKER_05 46:06

Only if that woman is mad and married, and she's laying next to her husband, she's mad at him. Then she don't have relations. You don't you don't think you don't think the second comment of the week comes from TikTok? It comes from James.

SPEAKER_03 46:20

Just James. Uh just James James teets humility.

SPEAKER_05 46:25

And this is regarding to the um the shit show where she wanted to get a rise out of her husband.

SPEAKER_03 46:30

Oh, she wanted a reaction out of her husband, so she cheated to get a reaction out of her husband and got one. He said, he said Did Tyler Perry write this?

SPEAKER_05 46:38

Did Tyler Perry write this? And I said, I said all we all we missing is the bad wig, and this is a Tyler Perry movie.

SPEAKER_03 46:47

All we missing is the wig. Bye, Namel. Goodbye. And right above his comment, Alonso said in quotation marks, because she said this to her husband, he just left me to spiral. He said 100 women versus accountability. You think that's funny? That's hilarious. You're trying to say women don't take accountability?

Comments Of The Week And Gender War Jabs

SPEAKER_05 47:09

You would see the look, the amount of comments in there that I again. I again I I see that that the whole gender war that y'all be doing is real. I don't partake in it because I don't care.

SPEAKER_03 47:22

It's like no matter what the topic is.

SPEAKER_05 47:24

The women will defend the women and the men will defend the men.

SPEAKER_03 47:27

That's not that's not true. Okay, logic, logic is logic.

SPEAKER_05 47:32

Sometimes. Okay, all right, sure.

SPEAKER_03 47:36

Okay, guys. This has been another episode of the Life After I Do podcast. If you are not doing so already, don't forget to like and follow, share, comment, engage, do all of the things. All the stuff. And we appreciate all of the things.

SPEAKER_05 47:50

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SPEAKER_03 47:52

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SPEAKER_05 48:02

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SPEAKER_03 48:10

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SPEAKER_05 48:27

Yes, I did report that you wasn't working that day.

SPEAKER_03 48:29

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SPEAKER_05 48:34

All that.

SPEAKER_03 48:35

All of the above. We appreciate all the new love, all the new support. You guys are amazing. And I was those made worth doing this.

SPEAKER_05 48:42

Y'all see the picture? She's not taller than me. She's got a lot more ass, so she sits higher. What are you talking about? You you look taller on the episode, you look taller.

SPEAKER_03 48:50

Oh, my legs are swinging right now.

SPEAKER_05 48:52

Yeah, but that that ass is holding you up. That ass is fat.

SPEAKER_03 48:56

Okay.

SPEAKER_05 48:56

Anyways. And it was cheeky this week.

SPEAKER_03 49:00

Okay. Anywho. Anyways, guys, thanks for tuning in to another episode. Don't forget, you get a new episode every Wednesday. Every Wednesday. And until then. Peace, Booskies. Peace, Booskies.

SPEAKER_05 49:13

Let's go, birds.