Life After I Do Podcast
Marriage and relationships can be tough. You may feel like you’re the only one struggling but you’re not. Life After I do is a weekly podcast where Morice and Kynesha, a black married millennial couple, share their experiences and advice on everything from kids and family to intimacy and connection. Noting is off limits.
In their 21 years together and 7 years of marriage, Morice and Kynesha have learned a lot about what it takes to make a relationship work. They know the importance of communication, trust and commitment. They also know it’s okay to not have it all figured out.
Join them every Wednesday as they talk about their own journey of “Life After I do”.
Life After I Do Podcast
Who Did I Marry?
What if the greatest act of love isn’t grand gestures—but simply creating a safe space for your partner to be their true self? This week, we dive deep into this powerful insight, exploring how making room for each other's growth can strengthen your bond in unexpected ways.
"Your confidence level is trending up." What sounds like a simple observation is actually proof of what happens when couples truly support and uplift one another. From early morning gym sessions (where one reluctant partner becomes an unexpected cameraman and weight-spotter) to childhood memories (like recognizing the one in middle school!), we share personal stories that highlight the small, everyday ways we express love.
That's how you show me love, because you create a space for me to feel like, safe and confident, to be able to be like me. You know, take care, take care of the things that I need to take care of, without the pressures of outside things to deal with, like you guard me from all that. So I feel like that's a that's a huge, that's a huge showcase of love.
Speaker 2:these last two, three months your confidence level it is, it is trending up, and and now you're starting to see your gains, and then your head is trending out?
Speaker 1:oh my gosh, it's not. Hey, everybody, and welcome back to another episode of life after I do podcast. Another week, new podcast, another week here with your host, nisha G, and Okay.
Speaker 2:My breath control is getting bad. First of all, hold up.
Speaker 1:Okay, johnny Gill Jr, hold up. Okay, look, Holding a note, johnny Gill Jr, you're here. You're joined today with Kynesha and Johnny Gill Jr. Look here you know, johnny, my cousin. Johnny is not your cousin. We got the same last name that does not mean anything.
Speaker 2:Johnny is my cousin. I don't even think that's his real name. It don't matter. Don't you ever disrespect me by calling me Keith Sweat? Okay, that was very, very Okay. That was very, very disrespectful. I didn't appreciate it, okay, and now you just changed the whole mood. Oh my gosh, because now I was really interested in your week. Now I don't care.
Speaker 1:You never care about my week. What are you talking about?
Speaker 2:I do care. I need to know that you're functioning so that you can do what I need you to do Okay.
Speaker 1:Well, right now I'm not, I'm barely holding on by a thread. Right now I'm barely holding on.
Speaker 2:I'm a stand-by.
Speaker 1:Stand by me. You might need to stand behind me because, no, I want you to fall.
Speaker 2:I want you to fall, so you can treat me like how.
Speaker 1:So I can treat you like you treated me. What are you talking about? When I, when I passed out, can't you really? That's not funny. That's not funny. I was genuinely concerned for your life. Wow, wow, damel, how long was I passed out? For like 25 seconds, the best sleep. I got okay you didn't even know, so shut up.
Speaker 1:That's the best sleep ever, 25 seconds really rejuvenated me okay let's okay, let's see how panicked you'd feel if I pass out then I'll be really concerned because you got a history of passing out. I don't have a history of passing out your other medical history how are you doing booskies? Um, in this very moment I'm uh, I'm sleepy. Are you done? No, I'm not done. I mean I'm good, but I'm a little. I'm a little, I'm a little dizzy, I'm a little sleepy um, I don't know what's into your husband.
Speaker 2:I don't know why I've been waking up three o'clock in the morning. Well, you woke up at 3 o'clock in the morning.
Speaker 1:Well, you woke up at 3 o'clock this morning because you went to the gym, but I've been waking up at 3 o'clock without an alarm. That's just your biological clock.
Speaker 2:I don't want it to be.
Speaker 1:Oh well, change it. I don't know you can change it, you can try to change it.
Speaker 2:I've always been a morning person anyway.
Speaker 1:Yeah, I mean, but you know, I mean honestly. I mean I feel okay, I think I just need to eat dinner, cause we haven't had dinner yet either, so I probably just need to like.
Speaker 2:I almost told you to order that rice and spice.
Speaker 1:Oh, rice and spice that. But it's kind of too late to eat rice right now. It's too late to eat wing stop. I mean, I could always make an exception for some wings. I feel like that's a bit more acceptable.
Speaker 2:We should cut this short and try to make it the smoking fire for the club. No.
Speaker 1:I'm not driving all the way over there, even though their wings are my favorite. If you guys have not been to Smoking Fire in Rivers riverside they have some of the best parmesan wings if you can get there before they run out. Yeah, if you can get there before they run out oh my gosh, are you yawning too? They're gonna pass it to me.
Speaker 2:Listen, y'all listen we are listen, we are busy parents right and it's, it's been, it's been a busy week.
Speaker 1:It's been a busy weekend, but you know what we are here. What's important is that we showed up for y'all, because y'all have been showing up for us on social media for like the past two weeks and we really, really, really appreciate the love shout out to all the new followers on instagram, all the new followers on instagram um all the new followers on freaking tiktok new subscribers on youtube. New subscribers on youtube like we show, but we slow, we slow, but we show y'all, but we really appreciate it.
Speaker 2:So, of course, the turd is in the hair yeah, we're gonna win the race we gonna show.
Speaker 1:We gonna show up for y'all. We really appreciate all the feedback. Y'all have been giving us such great feedback on the podcast. It's been really encouraging, really exciting. It does kind of like give you that boost to kind of keep going. I can show up for y'all, even though I need a chicken.
Speaker 2:She don't always show up for me, but she'll show up for y'all. Tell us about your week. Here we go.
Speaker 1:I don't have a lot of capacity this evening, like as far as storage. Like if I was like storage, I ain't got a lot of space. So you can't be soaking up gigabytes.
Speaker 2:You didn't get like the gigs left.
Speaker 1:I don't have a lot of gigs left, so you can't be stoking up gigabytes like that.
Speaker 2:But you got that ass though, okay.
Speaker 1:So my week was.
Speaker 2:That ass was awesome.
Speaker 1:My week.
Speaker 2:That shelf was good, that shelf was good.
Speaker 1:My week was good. Boy, they big enough Put a cup on that Okay, but goodbye I think I've reached you know how you said that you've reached a Jim Bro status.
Speaker 2:Stop. You're always trying to be like me, bro. What You're always trying, hold on my eyes watered. I didn't tell you that today the girl that's normally in the morning, which one?
Speaker 1:The employee yeah.
Speaker 2:She came and opened the door. I said, oh, thank you. I said it's kind of weird.
Speaker 1:She was probably going to clean it and you were walking up, so she opened it, wow.
Speaker 2:Why are you always trying to alter my reality? Wow, you know what?
Speaker 1:You ain't about shit. He made it seem like she ran from behind the desk to open the door for him you ain't about shit, you ain't about shit, shit.
Speaker 2:And then my um, you know I got the nod of approval for another from you know another, the other old black man, like all right man, all right, young buck. I said I appreciate you calling me young. Well, you're not old, shut up, but you're not. But I ain't young, I ain't, I ain't in my 20s no, you're not in your 20s, but I'm approaching 40 you know I was.
Speaker 1:I was doing the what was it called the grandfather challenge thing. It's like a mobility challenge. I found today and I was doing that and um, after, that I couldn't pass it.
Speaker 2:No, you couldn't damn no, y'all see how she had no faith.
Speaker 1:Listen if y'all had zero faith if y'all knew how this man's right knee she had first of all. If y'all knew how his right knee was set up, you would say the same thing to him.
Speaker 2:First of all, forget you. I don't know if you saw my post. I posted a story and I was like, when you're questioning if your trainer has snapped because he actually said something nice about you. I said are you okay? I said are you going through something?
Speaker 1:right now.
Speaker 2:Because I'm not used to this nice energy.
Speaker 1:Well, because he probably realized he needs to throw a little bit of encouragement in there every now and then, Like sprinkle some in there.
Speaker 2:I mean he said something along the lines of I know you like when people tell it to you straight, and now you're a lot better than when you started, so I can be a little.
Speaker 1:I said oh, okay, oh, is that what it is? That's what he said.
Speaker 2:I said oh no, something going on. I said he about to snap. Okay, I'm about to check in on this girl. Make sure she okay, goodbye, goodbye, cause she gonna tell me the real no, he going through this shit, bye no, he's fine.
Speaker 1:I'm sure he's okay, shout out to Body, bob Patino. Yeah, shout out to Body.
Speaker 2:Bob Patino. That's not his name, that's just what we dubbed him.
Speaker 1:Oh is it. Well, what's his handle?
Speaker 2:His handle is Patino and his name. His name is Joseph Patino, but I call him Body Bob Patino.
Speaker 1:Okay, yeah, but shout out to Joseph Patino. You guys follow him on. He's on TikTok. Is he on Instagram too? I don't he's on TikTok? Yes, he's on TikTok. I follow him on Instagram. Okay Well, instagram, tiktok, but yeah.
Speaker 2:I also follow him at work, because we work together. Oh my gosh.
Speaker 1:Yes, but okay, maybe we should tell him to change his handle Body by Patino. I tell them to give me a call, I'll give them a good deal on some merch.
Speaker 2:It got a nice ring to it, don't it yep? Tell them I'm gonna need 10 of that because he came up with the name you on that body, babatino, actually andy came up the ring, but okay okay, five percent, just trying to take my week, I had a good week. Well damn, I didn't even finish because you bye, because you doing the most.
Speaker 1:I was just I feel like, because we're tired, we're like laughing so much, let me just say I had a good week.
Speaker 2:What was good about it? Um, honestly, the best thing about it was my therapy session. Okay, some hard truth was said, some realization. I got some good coping mechanisms, um, and you know hard truth was said.
Speaker 1:some realization, I got some good coping mechanisms.
Speaker 2:And you know, dr Williams, she hit me with the blackness this week. I said okay, sister.
Speaker 1:She had to be a little bit of your mama. She referenced Kendrick. Oh, I heard that one. I said hold on. I heard that one. She made you count how many hours are in a day, so you know, so don't let look here, don't get the game. Don't get in the game bye.
Speaker 2:Because I had to pay for it. Yeah, but like you know what, I was going to talk to her too, because I was, like you know, once this is all over, like I would. Is there a way I can still see her after?
Speaker 1:this fact Because I really do like her. That's good. It's rare, right, because I don't like nobody.
Speaker 2:No, I mean especially for a therapist, and when she told me she was 61, I said oh, is Kenneth your dad.
Speaker 1:Bye Talking about my daddy because my daddy's so tall, which is diabolical because I'm not. You just slides over my hamster. It's like I got his body structure. You just sized him in hamster. I got his body like composition, but not his height.
Speaker 2:That's crazy work.
Speaker 1:Your daddy ain't got ass like you. That's crazy work. That's crazy work.
Speaker 2:Why do you got me doing this when I'm tired? You know I'm going to say some stupid shit. Well, please don't.
Speaker 1:I just said your daddy okay ass like you, but my dad does have ass. Oh whoa, he has more ass than you do hold on now I can tell you who don't have ass, why you got, why is, why are?
Speaker 2:you taking shots at me. Look here, I like your butt, though my wife has been taking shots at me all week. I have it, and I know why it Because you get like this during this portion of your 30-day cycle what You're in this phase, I'm not taking shots at you, you do. You get in this stage where you just it's like it just makes you you're so happy.
Speaker 1:It makes me feel better to like to crack down on you. Remind me to get the popcorn out the mailbox that we? There's popcorn in the mailbox.
Speaker 2:Luckily the weather has been terrible, I think, um because you know it's from the phone, it's from the fundraisers.
Speaker 1:I know and I remember there was one flavor that I chose that I really want to try, and it's jalapeno pickle. They've been out there for three, four days. Yeah, I want to try that jalapeno pickle and they've been out there for three, four days. Yeah, I want to try that jalapeno pickle.
Speaker 2:Okay, but my week was good.
Speaker 1:That's good.
Speaker 2:Shout out to Dr Williams.
Speaker 1:That's good. We sorry y'all. What else was good about your week, babe? What?
Speaker 2:else was good about it. Yeah, what was good about it? That's because, see it's I, I, I knew what kind of week was going to be when she pulled that shit in target the other day. What I pulled in target when you started, when you're doing that joke, what joke? I'm gonna stick by him see what I said.
Speaker 1:I was talking to savannah, yeah, so we were walking in target. We were walking in target and we were we were talking about something. Oh, I so we were walking at Target. We were walking at Target and we were we were talking about something. Oh, I think we were talking about like you telling me like using my card for like stuff that I just want, and I was like I'm not gonna do that, I'm gonna use the communal money yeah and then you're oh and you're like we're talking about the headband.
Speaker 1:It was the headband and you're like you can buy that, like with your money, and I was like I know, but I'm not going to. And then you're like I'm going to buy it. And I was like I said you know, I was just talking to Savannah the other day and he was like who the hell is Savannah? And I was like I was telling Savannah the other day and he was like again, who is Savannah? And then I told him I was like I was telling Savannah see, he is a good man, Savannah, savannah, he is a good man, he is a good man, savannah.
Speaker 1:Okay, oh gosh, we are like.
Speaker 2:Some people will be mad when they realize we went to Target.
Speaker 1:Well, no, okay, well, we should explain. We're not listen. We're not like shopping at target. Let's be clear. We were not like shopping, like we haven't been shopping at target. We go to the starbucks.
Speaker 1:That's inside of target, because those are yeah, they're, they're and it's not even we're not even over exaggerating. This is the only Starbucks that doesn't give us pushback for how we make our drink. And so we were. We were getting like our Starbucks coffee, but I also needed a quick headband for the gym. So I did buy a headband, but it was.
Speaker 2:And she made me use my money to buy it. It was our money, so I try to be for the people, but she won't let me Okay bye, anyway, yeah, so just you know.
Speaker 1:but I'm not like, I'm not like shopping at all Hold on now.
Speaker 2:you just fucking triggered me. Why I just remembered this. My wife is so unappreciative of me.
Speaker 1:Oh, wow.
Speaker 2:Let me tell y'all what happened. Wow, let me tell y'all what happened.
Speaker 1:Wait, is this an approved story?
Speaker 2:Yes, before you put all my business on the interwebs, it is Because I'm approving it. Because I'm approving it, I got up hella early Friday morning. Okay, to go work out. Yeah, get all my workout in Mm-hmm. So that I what she said she needed. She needed support that day.
Speaker 1:I didn't say I needed support.
Speaker 2:But what it turns out is she needed a cameraman and someone to rack and unrack her weight. She, I said you are in the gym with your wrist broken. I said who? I said you're not getting me next Friday. I will not be doing this why.
Speaker 1:I will not be doing this. Why I will not be doing this? But it was helpful. I was listen.
Speaker 2:I was on a I'm not doing it.
Speaker 1:I had leg day on Friday, okay, and I was not at 10% like I wasn't at 100%, I was not like there, and so I was just letting him know. Your support is appreciated because I'm not 100% here, but I'm going because I have to get it done and it's a part of my program and I have to get it done. It's also one of my favorite days to do, which is working on my squat and increasing my squat numbers, and the fact that he recorded, did all my recordings for me, for my trainer. He put away my weights and racked them and that was huge because I didn't feel like doing it.
Speaker 2:I found her a treadmill, I was like I'm in here, I'm a fucking butler. No, you're not.
Speaker 1:You were there for me. You supported me when I thought that I couldn't push 170 on my extensions. You were there to tell me that you could, and you put that in there for me. That's what Hit me again. That's what You're solid. Stop hitting my grandma. You're solid, hold on.
Speaker 2:It just reminds me of something. Today, I don't know, I said something and Des was like aw. I said get your head off my grandma.
Speaker 1:Bye, maurice, he's so special. Get your head off my grandma. Bye, maurice, he's so special. Get your hand off my grandma.
Speaker 2:She can't see she don't want to touch you.
Speaker 1:Really your shirt is covering her face, it don't matter.
Speaker 2:She's here, I know she's here. The world may not.
Speaker 1:Don't touch her.
Speaker 2:Like my dad was like oh, I didn't know, you guys, it wasn't for you to know. Really, just be lucky, you got to see it once, because you probably never see it again. Oh, my God, that's a lie, because when I get fit y'all, nothing but crop tops. That's what he says. Crop tops and tank tops, crop tops.
Speaker 1:You don't wear crop tops with your belly button hanging out. No, that's not a crop top, babe, right here.
Speaker 2:Yeah, crop top, right here are you gonna make your crop top? I'm gonna make your crop top.
Speaker 1:I'm gonna make your your crop tops into like slingshot crop tops, so it's gonna be like you're only gonna have like this much fabric.
Speaker 2:I was, I was. I was joking about the crop.
Speaker 1:It's gonna be like this much fabric on the side and then I'm gonna like cut it super low, like down here, so it's gonna be like just a piece, a piece of fabric really let's get into it, guys.
Speaker 2:This is a new segment called why did I marry my wife? That hurt my feeling why did I marry you?
Speaker 1:that's ass, did you what what?
Speaker 2:that hurt my? What hurt your feelings, baby? I apologize. I didn't mean to hurt your feelings sucker.
Speaker 1:That didn't hurt my feelings.
Speaker 2:You toxic as hell.
Speaker 1:Toxic as hell. I had to put on like a bright lip today too, to like spruce up. I like it. I did purple because it's your favorite color, but I was also like I need to put on something a little bit brighter what I would wear purple every day.
Speaker 2:Okay, I'll buy you a bunch of purple shirts.
Speaker 1:You know what Say less your birthday's coming up.
Speaker 2:I wear purple every day, you're gonna notice a theme yeah, if you wanna give me some of my birthday, there's a set of shoes.
Speaker 1:I'm not buying you no more shoes. I'm not buying you no more shoes. I got the two turtles.
Speaker 2:I'm not buying you any more shoes.
Speaker 1:I need the other two. Okay, they're going to be, and they're going to be right there at the store for you to admire, cause I need, I need the Donnie's. I got to get the purple. They're going to be at the store for you to admire, or you can always look it up online.
Speaker 2:Save a picture. I'm going to get them myself.
Speaker 1:That's it.
Speaker 2:She's not going to camp. I want your shoes. We'll go watch me. Yeah right, you ain't gonna do that, guys.
Speaker 1:So, 30 minutes later, how well do we know each other? Apparently not at all full transparency guys.
Speaker 2:She asked me some of these questions earlier and I was like I said you got them all wrong because we changed so.
Speaker 1:So I would just rather take the approach like what do you? Obviously it's gonna have to be different. What do you think? Right you know, all right, let's go okay.
Speaker 2:So it's gonna be a fun, lighthearted episode. We're gonna just ask you know each other some questions and just see who knows the most about the other person.
Speaker 1:Yeah, we'll see.
Speaker 2:And she's most likely going to win, because I don't pay attention to shit.
Speaker 1:Wow, wow. Which is it?
Speaker 2:You either pay attention or you don't.
Speaker 1:Okay, I pay attention to not pay attention. Let's start off with something easy.
Speaker 2:Why do you go first?
Speaker 1:Because I always go first Wow. I'm the lady of the house, the lady of the house. Always she ain't lying let's always go first.
Speaker 2:Okay, this, this is an easy one. You know this. Hold on, hold on. You said that and in my head lejules said see baby shut up, I'm gonna call her lejules.
Speaker 1:Okay, what is my absolute favorite TV show or movie? You know this.
Speaker 2:Your favorite movie is. What's Love Got to Do With it? Exactly, your favorite TV show is either going to be Walker, texas Ranger or Golden Girls.
Speaker 1:Okay, If it's between those two shows. I'm going to say Golden Girls, but neither one are my absolute favorite show. What's my absolute favorite show? Good time and that you hate watching with me. Oh, charmed, no, but that's a really. But I will give you. I will give you that. I will give you that, but no, my absolute. And you always say I cannot watch this. All you watch is crime and murder Law and order.
Speaker 2:SVU. Thank you.
Speaker 1:Same goddamn episode every week it is not, it's literally based on like okay, they tried, they put it in there that it's not based on like current events, but it's always based on current events.
Speaker 2:So let me ask you this what's my? The funny thing is, I haven't seen my favorite movie in a long time because I cannot find it.
Speaker 1:See now, we've had debates about this.
Speaker 2:We've had debates this because I've you because you have said that's my favorite movie behind both of these movies multiple times and so every time I say either one of them, you're like that's not it, but I'm gonna say two.
Speaker 1:I'm gonna say two. What's my favorite?
Speaker 2:movie and what's my favorite tv show of all time I'm gonna say two for the movie. I'm gonna say along came paulie no, I said, that's my favorite ben stiller movie see that's not my favorite movie um and then I do love a long name um, um, oh, oh.
Speaker 1:What's the name of it? Because I used to say players club, but it's not players club, it's the um, oh, it's from the 90s it has nothing to do with trippers I know, and it's from the 90s and it's on the tip of my tongue, oh my gosh, and all I see is the actors in there who?
Speaker 2:Who plays in the movie.
Speaker 1:I don't know the names.
Speaker 2:One's a comedian.
Speaker 1:Yes, he's the dark-skinned one. He has the curly top, the comedian, and I can't remember his name, but he was like the player, he was not a player, he was a player.
Speaker 2:My favorite movie of all time is Foolish.
Speaker 1:Foolish. Yes Is Jada. Is Jada in there? No, okay, who's the other? Who's the other girl? I know the.
Speaker 2:It's with Eddie Griffin, uh-huh and Master V.
Speaker 1:That's not who the comedian I was thinking. I was thinking the other guy with the curly hair.
Speaker 2:I don't know who you were thinking the movie with jada pickett where they were like doing the dates, you need my woo. Maybe am I thinking about woo. My favorite movie with jada in it is lowdown dirty chain.
Speaker 1:See, you, don't know me okay, okay, let's keep this going. Okay, peach, what's my favorite tv show? Uh oh, um, now you have a couple either Big Bang Theory or how I Met your Mother well, no, how I Met your Mother is a good show, it's not a good show, but Big Bang Theory is your yes, that is your favorite show, big Bang Theory?
Speaker 1:um, okay, I'm not gonna ask you that one, because you got it wrong earlier and then I told you the answer. So then you're gonna try to. Let's see, okay, if I could go on vacation anywhere in the world. And then I told you the answer. So then you're going to try to. Let's see, okay, if I could go on vacation anywhere in the world right now, where do you think I would go?
Speaker 2:Nova Scotia, because for some reason you obsessed with Nova Scotia. Is that right?
Speaker 1:that wasn't my top, but I will give it to you only because I've been talking about Nova Scotia since like the sixth grade. So, and then it's Nova Scotia, canada, by the way, and for people who don't know so my answer would be Nova Scotia. I'll give you Nova Scotia.
Speaker 2:Japan or Thailand. Okay, I'll give you.
Speaker 1:I'll give you those and that's only be Nova Scotia. I'll give you Nova Scotia, japan or Thailand Okay, I'll give you those, and that's only because Nova Scotia, because I've been talking about it since the sixth grade, like I said, and then Japan and Thailand, because that's what I've been trying to convince you for family vacation. So, like see, I'm starting you off easy. What's my favorite dessert Right now? Protein cheesecake Of all time of all time.
Speaker 2:uh, that's a tough one, because every time your mom comes, the only thing you always I'm gonna say that it's even it's even I'm gonna say I haven't had it in years.
Speaker 1:Is it the, the layer, the uh seven layer?
Speaker 2:I can make that. It's something I don't make.
Speaker 1:You haven't had it in years. I'm just thinking about what you always request when your mom comes to visit.
Speaker 2:What I want my mama can make, that's why I don't request it. Oh, if she could, that's all she would be making.
Speaker 1:Then that one I don't know, because you obviously haven't eaten it enough for me.
Speaker 2:It's my grandfather's apple turnovers yeah, that one. I don't think you ever told me that okay, this has been another episode, because clearly she don't listen to me at all I do, I do um.
Speaker 1:Uh, let's see. Okay, what's one thing I do every morning without fail brush your teeth or no, hold on. I do it without fail every morning. Oh, go to the bathroom. Yeah, that was an easy one too, because who?
Speaker 2:doesn't, because who?
Speaker 1:doesn't. Everybody pees. Well, I mean, I don't think everybody, but you should be peeing first thing in the morning. But yeah, I'm going to say the same for you.
Speaker 2:I'm not going to ask that question, I'm going to ask this question.
Speaker 1:Oh gosh, he just wants to stump me.
Speaker 2:I'm giving him easy ones. If I had to pick between the beach, mountains or city for a getaway which would I pick Mountains.
Speaker 1:Okay, you do know me. The mountains, that's an easy one. Because you don't want to be at the beach and you damn sure don't want to be in the city, because I've been trying to convince you to move to the city. I I've been trying to convince you to move to the city I'm not a city boy and he's like we're absolutely not going to move to the city. I go buy a farm before I buy a house in the city.
Speaker 1:So yeah, mountains, that was an easy one. That was an easy one for sure, told you. Let's see, do I prefer to plan things in advance or am I more spontaneous?
Speaker 2:You prefer not to plan shit? That's the answer to that question. You prefer to be told what's going on? That's the answer.
Speaker 1:Just make the decision. What do I always say? I always tell them, like, just tell me what we're doing. But when I want to do something, I think it is pretty spontaneous, because I don't normally plan for it. I'll just be like, hey, so Sunday.
Speaker 2:Right.
Speaker 1:This is where we're going on Sunday.
Speaker 2:When I'm stressed, what's the best way to calm me down?
Speaker 1:Ass.
Speaker 2:You know it.
Speaker 1:It's not difficult. What was I even worried about? Shut up, what was I even worried about? It wasn't even that deep. Nope, it was deep, but it wasn't that deep. And then I get you something to eat, rub your head right and you forget all about what you were stressed out about. Then I turn on Fifth Element and fall asleep.
Speaker 2:It's diabolical. Fifth Element is that movie that I've seen so many times. I can recite I know, I know what's happening without looking at the screen. That's why you be like you don't even watch this, but I know what's happening he literally turns on the Fifth Element, like if he has a trouble falling asleep.
Speaker 1:He turns on the Fifth Element with um Bruce Willis and he just like and it makes him fall asleep.
Speaker 2:Another one of my favorites, that and Vampire in Brooklyn.
Speaker 1:I can fall asleep to like this. Oh my gosh and Vampire in Brooklyn. Yes, we be watching those movies like they just came out and it's diabolical because we've seen them so many times and we still watch them like they're like they just came out on DVD or something.
Speaker 2:They're great movies.
Speaker 1:Um. What did I wear on our first date? This is easy for you too.
Speaker 2:You wore these light denim jeans that were low-rise.
Speaker 1:They were corduroy and they were whitewashed. They were whitewashed and you had this white crop top top thingy on it was a sweater whatever, I don't know what shit called and and you had a beanie on my white beanie because I had just got um, I forget the name of those shoes, but they were like the high tops and I thought I was super cute.
Speaker 2:I think you had the iris on?
Speaker 1:no, wasn't the iris. They were a high top something because we had all just got them, but I was like obsessed with them.
Speaker 2:Okay, your turn what was my first impression of you?
Speaker 1:listen per your words or your words. The first time you saw me walk across the quad at vista campagna middle school in apple valley, cal. California, when I was in the sixth grade so I was like 11 years old you said to yourself that's her, that's my wife. Those were your words, his words, he said. As soon as I saw you walk across the quad for the first time at school, I said to myself that's her, that's my wife, right there. That's a diabolical feeling to feel at 12 and 13. That's wild.
Speaker 2:Well, I mean I was 13, but I had been through a lot. Yeah, that's true.
Speaker 1:Me too.
Speaker 2:You know? I mean, I had a full beard at that time, oh my gosh, it was the weirdest thing.
Speaker 1:It was the weirdest thing. You had a full like mustache. I was a man. You wasn't a man. I was. I was a man. You were not a man. You were just a boy with a really full line of hair across your top lip.
Speaker 2:Yeah, I wasted those years. My testosterone was at all-time high. Had I started my steroids then?
Speaker 1:Oh, at 12? Had you started testosterone at 12? I'm just playing, what I'm just playing. That is crazy, are you saying that you're on testosterone right now.
Speaker 2:No, oh, oh. Is it my turn to ask questions? It's mine. No, you asked, but you no. No, it is your turn.
Speaker 1:We're not going to record tired anymore.
Speaker 2:Go ahead, it is your turn.
Speaker 1:Okay, let me see if you remember this one. What was my childhood dream job? I know you ain't going to remember this.
Speaker 2:It was probably something weird. So what was it? Probably going to be a grocery bagger.
Speaker 1:Wow, Wow. A grocery bagger Demel I did not my earlier.
Speaker 2:I knew you wanted to be like in fashion. I don't know what the job was, but I don't know what your child job was. That started in high school.
Speaker 1:Okay, but I always wanted to be. I started what your child that started in high school. Okay, but I always wanted to be sorry, being with you every day. In high school I wanted to be a computer system analyst.
Speaker 1:Three that's funny, because you can't even log in I didn't even know how to transfer my data to a, but I did. I remember coming across that title and I, like, I researched it and everything and I was like that's it, I will. I wanted to become a computer system analyst. Three, and I wanted to own my own cyber cafe.
Speaker 2:Okay. That was it what, what is? What is one of my favorite memories of us together?
Speaker 1:One of your favorite. Oh gosh, there's so many Um are you sure I'm positive, jerk face. I'm positive because you told me and I was there. Well, yeah, it's a memory of us, I would say the ones that come to mind, I would say our first weekend getaway, like when we went to San Diego for our first, like weekend getaway, like when we had went to san diego, like for our first little weekend getaway when we were younger.
Speaker 1:You don't remember weekend yeah, the first time, not the, not the I know, no, the very first time the very first time was sunday. We went for a week, not a weekend oh, I thought it was a week we went for. I mean a weekend we.
Speaker 2:We had city passes.
Speaker 1:We hit all the parks oh yeah, I thought that was the weekend.
Speaker 2:Yeah see, I've been treating you to shit. You don't realize okay so anywho that one.
Speaker 1:Your memory is short, that's not one of them okay, well, I would say the ones that you have mentioned, that they're memorable for you. Um, when we had, when we gave birth to, when I gave birth to our daughter, that was a good one, obviously our wedding day, because you said you were making fun of me, because I was drunk, Drunk drunk and then that we can get away to San Diego. But what is it for you?
Speaker 2:Tell me, we're in the hallway in high school, uh-huh, and you, we're in the hallway in high school and you looked at me and I said, damn, maybe your lip gloss is popping. And he was like, yeah, it's like bling bling, oh my gosh. Okay, we have two different recollections of that whole scenario, cause you say we were at school.
Speaker 1:I say we were in the car on our way to school and I was putting my lip gloss on.
Speaker 2:It was not. We were already in school.
Speaker 1:I. I was putting my lip gloss on?
Speaker 2:No, it was not, we were already in school.
Speaker 1:I say we were in the car, you were doing a little touch up. Yeah, I had the gloss and I was doing my touch up right before you parked, before we got to school.
Speaker 2:No, that just made me think about like all the times like you pick me up for school in the morning and we would go. You just don't appreciate what I've done for you, oh my gosh, like I said at the top of the episode, like I've really been in your corner a long time.
Speaker 1:Goodness babe, I've stood on business. You are seen, you are heard.
Speaker 2:Yeah, because I'm fat, you can't miss me I appreciate you.
Speaker 1:You are loved, you are. I have to give him his affirmations you are loved. I'm teasing you, babe, I'm just teasing you. I love you. Let me ask you a question Do I have a favorite holiday, and why? I would say your favorite holiday is Christmas, because mine is. Thanksgiving. What's my favorite holiday babe?
Speaker 2:Your birthday.
Speaker 1:And you don't consider it to be a holiday. Your birthday, yes, obviously, because it's not a holiday. It is a holiday. It's not, it is a holiday.
Speaker 2:It is not.
Speaker 1:Yes, it is Okay.
Speaker 2:It's my turn. Okay, calm down, calm down. What song reminds me of our relationship?
Speaker 1:Oh gosh, I don't know, because you listen to nothing but love music. Um, there is really, can I, can, I guess, an artist I mean, there's not one particular song I know. That's why I'm saying can I just? Say an artist, so you can list off like four or five songs.
Speaker 2:Don't say artist.
Speaker 1:I know it's gonna be Anthony Hamilton the big aunt. You know what I mean, that's why, no matter what the people say?
Speaker 2:that's not the name of the song.
Speaker 1:I know it's not, that's why, but you know what song I'm talking about. I don't know the titles of songs. That's like asking me, like traveling north, south, east, west. I don't know. I can tell you the landmark.
Speaker 2:It's a lot of Anthony Hamilton songs.
Speaker 1:I know. That's why I say, can I name artists? So I'm going to just go with Anthony Hamilton, anything. Anthony Hamilton, anything. Charlene.
Speaker 2:No Cornbread, fish and collards. Yes, why? Because you couldn't cook them.
Speaker 1:Really, really, really. I can't cook cornbread, fish and collard greens now, but back then, what couldn't I cook? Cornbread, fish or collard? Yes, I could cook all of them. Okay, now we're talking regular cornbread. Yes, hot water cornbread. I had to work at it, but I got better okay, go ahead and ask your question um, what's one thing on my bucket list that I haven't done yet, and it's also something that you said you would never do with skydive.
Speaker 2:Yes, I'm not doing that shit I don't know why.
Speaker 1:It's diabolical that you wouldn't skydive, but you drive without a seat belt. That's crazy work. That's crazy work calculator no, it's not a calculated risk.
Speaker 2:I have more control you don't and to my employer.
Speaker 1:I wear a seatbelt yeah, he wears a seatbelt at work.
Speaker 2:I'm talking about in our own vehicle if I won the lottery, what's the first thing I'm going to do? Pay off your student loans no, it's not, they can still wait.
Speaker 1:Really? No, it is not. They can still wait. They've waited this long. They can keep waiting.
Speaker 2:It ain't gonna hurt them. I promise you, I promise you, boo-boo, I promise you, it ain't gonna hurt them, it ain't gonna hurt him at all what's the?
Speaker 1:so you're not gonna pay off your student loans? Maybe a year later pay off, maybe a year later? Wait, make them put you on a payment, yeah think about it.
Speaker 2:I have all this cash on hand.
Speaker 1:If you default me, I have cash on hand oh my gosh, I'm still gonna live a good life. Bye, I might. I have cash on hand. Oh my gosh, I'm still going to live a good life. Bye, I might not pay it at all. I might just move to Dubai. That's not a thing, babe, let me see. I would say I mean, the first thing, I feel like the first thing you would do is just like pay the house off or something.
Speaker 2:The first thing I would do is tell you Is tell is tell me yes, and I'm like you can't tell nobody this, but I can't hold it in, so I gotta tell you cause, like I told the people, we a tea set and I gotta, so I gotta come to you so we can be excited together. Okay, and I'm like, don't tell nobody, especially my mama or your mama, don't let no grandies know what the situation is that we're, that we're millionaires because the first thing they're gonna do is start planning the first thing they're gonna do is exhale finally retire?
Speaker 1:no, you can't I didn't see how it was gonna work out, but but it did god came through for me after all we got y'all. Don't worry, we got y'all.
Speaker 2:We got y'all for two years.
Speaker 1:Bye, goodbye, goodbye. What's my favorite way to receive affection?
Speaker 2:You like for me to do things for you. You like for me to do tasks that I normally wouldn't do?
Speaker 1:I like you to like read my mind, basically yeah which is crazy it's not, it's really not because you are, you know what I like what's a tradition from my family that I love? What's a tradition, uh playing phase 10 whenever y'all get together look here that's ridiculous it's ridiculous and it's a long, boring-ass game.
Speaker 2:For the people who don't know, Phase 10 is like playing Rummy. Phase 10 is terrible.
Speaker 1:Phase 10 is terrible. You know what we said about it.
Speaker 2:We do have a long history of playing cards in my family, Like we do love card games A good card game Like I used to play Tunk Spades Speed, like you know. It's just Don't break out the Uno cards. Oh gosh, my sister told me that they got Uno Allwilds.
Speaker 1:Oh, we gotta play that. We gotta play that. We got the one with the draw 10. That's diabolical. I would be so upset.
Speaker 2:I think she said I would quit. I think she said shine, hit her with two, draw 10s.
Speaker 1:And she said I'm, I would quit. Who's gonna keep playing after that? That's obnoxious. That is obnoxious. Why would they even create that? I would, I would playing. I would say my stomach hurts and I'm leaving. If I could start any business or new career tomorrow, what would it be?
Speaker 2:Belly dancer. What the fuck.
Speaker 1:It would not be a belly dancer.
Speaker 2:I think you would go back to school and be a therapist.
Speaker 1:Okay, I can give you that.
Speaker 2:And then belly dancer. I think you would go back to school and be a therapist Okay, I can give you that and then belly dance, belly dance on the side to pay for it. Yeah, no. Do I have a favorite holiday and why. I just told you what my favorite holiday is it's? Christmas, it's not Christmas.
Speaker 1:It's.
Speaker 2:Thanksgiving, and why is that?
Speaker 1:For one you like to eat, and for two you like to be with your family too.
Speaker 2:She just think I'm fat. That's not why I like Thanksgiving.
Speaker 1:Why do you like Thanksgiving?
Speaker 2:Because Thanksgiving is the one holiday where it doesn't require anything Outside of just company and being thankful for what you have.
Speaker 1:Exactly With your family. That's why I said you like being with your family.
Speaker 2:There's no necessary monetary gain in celebrating Thanksgiving Right. It's just about being in that same space as the people you love.
Speaker 1:That you're thankful for.
Speaker 2:And being thankful that they're still around in your life, yep, and so when you start having Thanksgivings without people you love, they mean more.
Speaker 1:Yep, so true.
Speaker 2:But apparently I won't be thankful for nothing this year.
Speaker 1:Oh my gosh, I can't. Did I ever get in trouble as a kid? And if I did, what did I get in trouble for?
Speaker 2:You did something. Your mom beat your ass. You always tell that story. Your mom said I've never hit her and you're like want me.
Speaker 1:yes, you did well, yeah, because she had. I don't know why she lives in this fantasy land like she never whooped me. You absolutely, you absolutely did. You absolutely did you. You probably was sneaking out. I have never snuck out okay wait, listen, I only snuck out once my entire life and I would know now I didn't. I snuck in, I snuck into your bedroom, so tell me about your horror.
Speaker 1:What Get to it? We were 17. I snuck into your bedroom. You snuck me into your bedroom in the middle of the night. And what'd you do? We just laid there we cuddled.
Speaker 2:okay, go ahead and lie to the people what we did.
Speaker 1:We didn't do anything. We cuddled. Don't make some people think that I was out here just like I married her for a reason goodbye. We cuddled, we did absolutely nothing. I I risked my life for a cuddle session. Okay, oh my gosh, you're so obnoxious.
Speaker 2:If I could instantly master any skill.
Speaker 1:That's what you were about to say, masturbate.
Speaker 2:If I could instantly master any skill, what would I choose?
Speaker 1:Woodworking.
Speaker 2:What would you choose? I would probably choose coding, okay. Nah, what would you choose?
Speaker 1:I would, I would probably choose coding okay, yeah, okay you don't know what coding is, I do know what cody is computer coding. Gosh, you think I'm so dense you know who cody is I do know a cody. I do, okay, I know a cody. All right, I do know a cody. It's funny that you said that, um, what was my favorite childhood toy or game? You're my size barbie, she wasn't my favorite your teddy rufus no wow, easy bake oven.
Speaker 2:No, did you have one?
Speaker 1:yes.
Speaker 2:Yes, oh, you still get baked, it was what?
Speaker 1:By easy bake oven you still can't bake?
Speaker 2:Bye, my favorite toy.
Speaker 1:My favorite toy was my Jenny gymnastics.
Speaker 2:Oh I don't know what that is.
Speaker 1:It was a doll and she did gymnastics and she was um battery operated.
Speaker 2:And this is why I say you, you brainwashed my child.
Speaker 1:I did not do such a thing. I did not do such a thing.
Speaker 2:I'm going to ask you what was my favorite toy as a kid.
Speaker 1:No, I don't know. I mean the way you describe your childhood. It'd be a wonder if you had any toys. The way you make it sound. I never say that, the way you make it sound. You just said before you're like you had a rough life. When I asked you what was your thoughts when you saw me and you were like, oh, that she's the one. And I was like that's diabolical to have feelings like that at 12 and 13 and you're like I had a rough life.
Speaker 2:I went through some rough experience. I didn't mean I had no toys I don't know how that translates, so my favorite toy as a kid to this day is the michael keaton batmobile did you see michael keaton batmobile?
Speaker 1:the, the actual yes I know, I remember, wasn't it like the long one? Yes, yeah, I remember that that was my favorite.
Speaker 2:That was my favorite, and when that battery died, I cried nobody replaced them for you.
Speaker 1:We didn't know how to do that. What do you mean?
Speaker 2:you just unscrewed the bottom I know, like the battery died oh, it was a hot wheel, so you know that one. Okay, yeah, her jeep was yeah so I I used to leave school and go home and whip around the neighborhood in my hot wheel you, you had a batmobile and I had the convertible with the white interior.
Speaker 2:But I was cooler because I had a Batmobile. That and I remember well. I think I was nine or ten and my mom bought me a bike. But she bought me a bike that had the plastic motorcycle shell, so it looked like I was riding a motorcycle, yeah.
Speaker 1:I remember those too.
Speaker 2:I've always wanted a motorcycle, all right.
Speaker 1:Let's do like one more.
Speaker 2:Oh, we got to end on your question, what we're going to end on one of my questions.
Speaker 1:Okay, If I could relive one moment in our relationship, what would it be?
Speaker 2:Um, probably the moment you told me you were pregnant maybe you do it better, maybe I do it better the first time, that wasn't it what I'm pregnant. I'm pregnant and walk away. I was like, oh okay, but we're not gonna talk about this.
Speaker 1:I was like we'll talk about it again in the morning when I take another test. And then the look of excitement on your face when you open the door the next morning as I'm sitting on the toilet peeing on the stick. What does it say? What does it say can, can you let the pee dry? The pee's not dry. I'll let you know when the pee dries. Then I'll tell you. And you're just so excited. What does it say? What does it say and what does it say. And I was like we're pregnant, babe. And you were like yeah, you were pregnant.
Speaker 1:You were pregnant.
Speaker 2:So do I prefer I don't know. I'm going to tell you now Cuddling Uh-huh, kissing Uh-huh or hand-holding the most?
Speaker 1:All of them. But if I had to choose cuddling, kissing or hand holding, probably kissing or hand holding another episode you like all of them really. Which one do you prefer, babe?
Speaker 2:I'm just gonna ask you a different question. How do I show love to you the most?
Speaker 1:How do you show me love? Yes.
Speaker 2:The most. Hmm, See, now you're shacking like I don't See. This has been another episode. Oh gosh, that made me dizzy this has been another episode I am about done with her.
Speaker 1:I feel Okay, I only can answer this from like my perspective because of how I'm perceiving it. I would have to say for creating space for me to just like be me honestly. Like being able to. That's how I show you love Huh.
Speaker 2:That's how I show you love Huh.
Speaker 1:That's how I show you love. That's how you show me love, because you create a space for me to feel like, safe and confident, to be able to be like me. You know, take care, take care of the things that I need to take care of, without the pressures of outside things to deal with. Like you guard me from all that. So I feel like that's a. That's a huge. Let me tell you, that's a huge showcase of love.
Speaker 2:These last two three months your confidence level it is. It is trending up, and and now you're starting to see your gains, and then your head is trending out.
Speaker 1:Oh my gosh, it's not but, but I but. That's why I say, like the whole, the fact that I'm able to have time to focus on myself without having the distraction of what of just like you know, just everything else, like I mean, I have the distractions of life is what I'm saying, but you have given me time. I guess that's important. You've given me my time. Okay, like you've given me my time back.
Speaker 2:It sounds like I need to be more of an ancient nigga.
Speaker 1:Okay, Bye. It sounds like I feel like that's a huge that's a huge showcase of love.
Speaker 2:First of all, I want to say thank you for those kind words.
Speaker 1:I First of all, I want to say thank you for those kind words. I want to say that you have given me time.
Speaker 2:I want to say thank you for those kind words, but it's also showing I'm starting to see the error of my ways.
Speaker 1:Too late.
Speaker 2:I feel like I've given you too much leeway. Yeah, I feel like now I'm starting to see that you feel secure.
Speaker 1:Okay, goodbye, breeze, bye.
Speaker 2:There's no edge there.
Speaker 1:There's no edge.
Speaker 2:You're safe and you're comfortable and you're cozy in your space and you're like, wow, this Snuggie is nice and I need to come and be like give me that fucking Snuggie.
Speaker 1:Take this shit off, shut up. It's cold outside.
Speaker 2:Feel it, take this shit off.
Speaker 1:Shut up. It's cold outside, feel it. Cut this heat off. Cut this heat off. Shut up. You're so silly, cut this heat off.
Speaker 2:That was really sweet.
Speaker 1:I mean, it's the truth. I think about that, stop, stop. I'm going to read my DMs, I do. I think about that, stop who. They can be there all they want to. I don't answer them anyway what they gonna do.
Speaker 2:I don't know. They bless my cash app. I might come through.
Speaker 1:Listen, if they bless your cash app, y'all please bless this cash app. Y'all can be in the DM. Y'all can private email you gonna pimp me out. I'm not pimping you out. It's for the team we a team, we a teacup, we teacups For the team, we together. So whatever y'all cash at him I have access to, so it don't matter I don't have cash up, no more. I don't have cash up anymore either. I heard it was like a big scam. Don't quote me, that's just what I heard.
Speaker 2:But like I said, all I heard in my head was now I, you ain't heard that from me because I ain't the one, I ain't the one to gossip wait, where did that come from?
Speaker 1:what show was that living? Color yeah, it was because I ain't the one to gossip kim wangs that was a good one.
Speaker 2:Don't quote me because I ain't the one to gossip. That was a good one the whole time me, because I ain't the one to gossip that was a good one the whole time she been gossiping, gossiping the whole time.
Speaker 1:Oh, can we watch them in living color? Hated it, hated it. We should watch them in living color. Can we watch them in living color tonight?
Speaker 2:you can do whatever you want to do. I'm gonna be working on a podcast you suck anywho let's head on into.
Speaker 1:You should have a button that says our two cents.
Speaker 2:Please stop at the table oh, just come on, cause come on just just come on y'all look here when she, when she tired, she ain't good for nothing.
Speaker 1:Now I know where my kid gets it from.
Speaker 2:Yeah, because you acting like her, because I would definitely send you out of practice right now.
Speaker 1:Okay, that was a low blow. Okay, she was hungry, mm-hmm, oh, I'm hungry too, all right Again I say Okay, ready, I'm here. Okay ready, I'm here um my my husband and I got an offer, got our offer accepted on a house and our friends asked if they could move in hell.
Speaker 1:No, my husband and I received the notice that our offer was accepted. We were super excited and started sharing the news with our close friends and family. One of our friends, who is going back to school, asked since the timing just works out so perfectly, can he and his wife come live with us during the time he is back in school? No, my gut reaction was to say no, because we haven't even lived in the house and we immediately have to share the space with them. They also have not yet shared any specifics on plans of paying rent, helping out with groceries bills or et cetera. I would feel like a huge asshole telling them no and having the uncomfortable confrontation. But something tells me, as first time homeowners, we'd be frustrated if we immediately let them move in when we haven't even settled in ourselves. I'm looking for advice. I'm going to tell you?
Speaker 2:No, no, look here. That's rude to even ask, as someone who has opened his door many times, sometimes against his will, to other people and let them stay here Bye.
Speaker 1:No, but for you to not even be in your house yet Like they want to move in with you on moving day, Like yes, like we're all moving in, you guys put in the work.
Speaker 1:Y'all put up y'all money and then they just going to be right behind y'all talking about it's moving day, like no, no, because I'm pretty sure, had we not been buying this house and you already made the decision to go back to school, there should have been a plan in place to support yourself and your wife while you're in school. So they probably were planning on going back home, like to his parents or her parents, and they figure, our friends just bought this, you know, big, beautiful new house.
Speaker 2:Yeah, we did. No, you can't, you can't, you can't be here.
Speaker 1:You can't be. You can't be here, you can't. I mean you can come visit? No, don't, they can visit. Don't do that. No, they can visit don't show up to my house at all no, I wouldn't say that, because there are friends, real friends would do that. There are friends like. They can come over, we can celebrate, we can do the housewarming, but y'all can't stay there like the house ain't warm, no more.
Speaker 1:I think it's crazy work that you would even fix your mouth to say, oh, the timing is so right, do you mind if me and my wife came and like live with you guys for a little bit? And then like how she said there was no initial react. He didn't even say like hey, do you mind if we come and stay with you guys for like six months, we can go half on the mortgage. We would be willing to pay x, y and z. He literally just said yo, I gotta go back to school. Can we come live with y'all?
Speaker 2:like no and my thing is, you ain't even you. They're robbing you of the of the chance to just enjoy your home, because I mean, we had that conversation like we just want to be able to enjoy our home yeah, again, like I just want to be around here in my t-shirt.
Speaker 1:I can't do that with you here. I would like to have an unmuted argument. It's crazy work whispering when you're arguing Crazy work.
Speaker 2:Or trying to be quiet when you're trying to bring your wife over.
Speaker 1:Okay, Although you do have a point. It is crazy work. It's crazy, it's crazy. You don't have to be quiet, you don't want to be quiet don't want to be quiet.
Speaker 1:I mean you can't get all these girls, okay, I gotta get some rest and get something to eat. This has been another episode of life. After I do podcast if you're not doing so already you already know the rundown y'all have been running us up on social media. We really, really, really appreciate it. So you guys can just keep up the work. Go follow us at I was going to say go follow us at HomeGoods. Go follow us on TikTok, instagram, youtube, facebook, all of the above you can also write into the podcast at my brain is like Life After I Do podcast at gmailcom.
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Speaker 2:And until next time, don't be like her. And peace booskies, peace booskies.
