Life After I Do Podcast
Marriage and relationships can be tough. You may feel like you’re the only one struggling but you’re not. Life After I do is a weekly podcast where Morice and Kynesha, a black married millennial couple, share their experiences and advice on everything from kids and family to intimacy and connection. Noting is off limits.
In their 21 years together and 7 years of marriage, Morice and Kynesha have learned a lot about what it takes to make a relationship work. They know the importance of communication, trust and commitment. They also know it’s okay to not have it all figured out.
Join them every Wednesday as they talk about their own journey of “Life After I do”.
Life After I Do Podcast
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Reflecting on our journey, we cherish the path from high school flirtations to a spontaneous Vegas wedding. Through playful banter and heartfelt talks, we've learned to nurture and understand each other's needs. Seasoned by time, our bond has grown stronger through honesty and shared experiences. Together, we celebrate the simple joys, challenges overcome, and the enduring love that continues to evolve with us and our family. Here's to love that stands the test of time!
And I remember that day, my only goal was to make you feel special. So like that's why I got you the outfit, the shoes. I wanted to have everything laid out for you. When you like, walked in the room after you got out the shower and you're like, oh babe, and I was like my goal was just to make you feel special, like I just wanted to make you feel special because I knew like we were going through a tough time.
Speaker 2:But I was like it was a very rough time.
Speaker 1:And I was like it's his birthday and like even however I was feeling at the time, I was like you still deserve to feel special on your birthday. Hey everybody, and welcome back to another episode of Life After I Do. I'm your host, Nisha G, and I am here with my lovely, attractive, sexy, multi-talented husband.
Speaker 2:Stop trying to. It's your boy Molito. Yay, oh wow, oh wow, Diabolical. Hey Booskies, hey, you did Boy. Them women hormones, they drastic, ain't they? They just.
Speaker 1:You don't know what it's like. It's rough being a lady.
Speaker 2:It's rough being a lady, huh.
Speaker 1:It's rough being a lady.
Speaker 2:It's rough Luck be a lady tonight.
Speaker 1:Yeah, and then I had the most terrible eyelash in my eyeball.
Speaker 1:I have been being attacked by that eyelash since about 12 noon, okay, when I took a shower.
Speaker 1:You know how, like you rub your eye, like I had washed my face and I had rubbed my eye, and you know when it feels like there's a thousand lashes in your eye, and so I'm in the shower and I'm rubbing it, and then I open my eye and you know it, when it feels like there's a thousand lashes in your eye, and so I'm in the shower and I'm rubbing it and then I open my eye and I try to like rinse it out and stuff, and it just got worse and worse. So I got out the shower I looked, I couldn't see anything, but my eye was like super red. But then the irritation kind of subsided. Then later, when I had went to drop the kid off at practice, I could feel the irritation revving up again. And then I was in the car so I was able to look into the mirror a little bit closer and it was one lash that was wreaking havoc on my life, tearing your ass up Just wreaking havoc on my life.
Speaker 2:But I got it out. You jumped straight into your day, huh, yeah. Well, how was your week, booskies?
Speaker 1:My week was okay. I had a highlight. I think we both had a highlight. Which was what? Which was finding that damn Barbie camper today. Right, Right.
Speaker 1:So the kid has asked for it. She didn't even ask for a lot this Christmas, which you know we're pretty grateful for, but one of the things, like one of the bigger items, that she did ask for was this uh, barbie camper. It's basically like the Barbie dream house version of like campers or whatever you know. And, um, so I, I, I been looking for the Barbie camper. The Barbie camper was sold out. Amazon didn't have it, and then the people that were selling it were trying to sell it for obviously way over asking, and I had looked at a couple of targets and the target app said that they didn't have any. In the one store that might had some had low quantities, but we all know what that means. So we went to target to get wrapping paper and all that fun jazz and you were like, let me just hit up the toys, let me just go look yeah, let me just go look just to see what they have, because maybe we need to just replace it with something else.
Speaker 2:I was honestly just trying to find something camper adjacent. Yeah, and we did?
Speaker 1:We found the one for the little Barbies, but it was Barbie and Fisher-Price and so we were like, oh no, because that's like baby stuff you know in the fisher price area.
Speaker 2:No, it.
Speaker 1:No, it said it on the box. When you turned it around it said barbie and fisher price. And um, I was like no, that's like baby stuff. And so I'm just like looking at the stuff and he comes around the corner with this big like smile on his face and he's like, babe, tell me this is it. And I looked and when I saw the slide that's that top for the pool slide I said that's it, that is it.
Speaker 1:You could have sworn that we just found something that we were looking for for ourselves. We should have played a lot. I was thinking about it, the way the lady had looked at us. When we were like, yes, we found it. She was looking at us like okay, they crazy. And he was like they have two. I was like, yes, we found it. She was looking at us like okay, and he was like they have two. I was like yes, so we got that, and then she wanted this.
Speaker 2:Simone Biles leotard.
Speaker 1:And GK Elite literally had no child mediums left in the Simone Biles collection. No child mediums left in the Simone Biles collection. And I just so happened to get back on the site last night, cause I was just like let me look at some of the other ones you know, like maybe, maybe they have something. And I went to the pink and turquoise one, which is like the second one that she liked, and I clicked on it and it said child's medium available. I was like, get it, get it ring it up now get it.
Speaker 1:So I'm happy to say that we have, officially, we're done. We have found the major pieces on the Christmas list that she did want.
Speaker 2:So we thought we were done. And then I was talking to my sister earlier and she was like I gotta go get uh stocking stuffers.
Speaker 1:I said oh yeah, we were like damn stocking stuffers and I literally looked at him and was like it's, we're gonna put her halloween candy in there. I'm not, I'm not doing, I'm not doing it, well, I'm done. Well, I'm done. The wallet is done. The wallet is closed. We have bought christmas gifts. I have delegated the rest of the list to the grandparents. The money's done, she's fine. You say we're out, we're done, we're done, we're tapping out. He was like seriously, I was like, seriously, it's going to be the Halloween candy and guess what, she's going to love it. Right, she's going to love it. And if I, if I have time or if I feel like I'm in the mood because she did ask for um, I had some more bucket hats left from that uh, embroidery order that I did.
Speaker 1:I had embroidered some kids bucket hats and she saw that I had one left and she was like, oh, mom, I want a bucket hat with like unicorns on it, and so I was thinking to myself I said, okay, that's the stocking stuff right, if I, if I feel like I have, if you got it, if I got it in me, you got it in you to sit there and babysit my embroidery machine for about 15, 20 minutes to put a design on there, I'll do it for those of you, for those of you who don't know, I, I have not worked since august, the end of August. Yeah, he's on.
Speaker 2:well, we'll call it a sabbatical no it ain't a sabbatical, a leave, I'm out.
Speaker 1:He out, okay, he out. I mean he still got a job. That make it sound like you ain't got a job. He got a job. Anyway, he's just like on a leave.
Speaker 2:And you know when you out on a normal paycheck Right. So this Christmas has been a struggle. It is not a normal Christmas around here.
Speaker 1:And that's why we were extremely grateful when we got the Christmas list.
Speaker 2:Right.
Speaker 1:When we got the Christmas list, like I was like I said this is all you want. She was like yeah, I was like girlfriend, look at you in line. I said that's a, give me hug Give me a kiss. She wasn't disrespectful. She was like this is it, mom? But that's why I was telling you the bigger items that are on the list.
Speaker 2:I wanted to get.
Speaker 1:That's why I wanted to make sure she had those, because I knew she did. She's into her books and stuff, so she asked for chapter books. She asked for what was it? Her little dress-up sets. She asked for some. What was it? Her little, like her little dress up sets. She asked for some more attachments for her gymnastics equipment and then, like the bigger things were like the leotard, the Barbie camper, stuff like that Her activity books.
Speaker 2:The thing is oh, that's what you didn't tell folks. We actually found the camper. The camper was on sale.
Speaker 1:Yeah, we got it on sale, that's right.
Speaker 2:So it was like 30% off. See, yeah, we got it on sale, that's right. So it was like 30% off. See, look, mom is always looking out for you. Originally, the camper was the most expensive item.
Speaker 1:Right.
Speaker 2:But it turns out that the leotard is now the most expensive item and I just would like to say to Miss Biles Simone, it's the brand. Miss Biles, I am a big fan. I appreciate all the hard work and dedication you put into your craft. You are truly the greatest of all time and you have inspired many young children out here. But my daughter wants all your leotards Right and she don't got a job and she going to outgrow it in six months and want another one.
Speaker 1:And I can't afford to be buying 80, 90, 100 dollar leotards.
Speaker 2:I had showed my dad the other one like the long sleeve.
Speaker 1:It was like $330. And my dad was like $ and I was like dad, we paid 280 for her competition leo I was like yeah, that leo was great I was like her, her, her actual leotard we paid 280 for. I was like these things are not cheap. So I was really excited that I was least able to find that one that she liked.
Speaker 2:I don't mind doing.
Speaker 1:I just hope that when she's older she appreciate it oh well, I mean she probably don't don't do it with an expectation of a certain level. I mean like I don't think appreciation is a bad expectation, it's not a bad expectation, but what I'm just saying is you know, don't you know, because when, when she, she didn't ask to be here, you know she was an over ambitious embryo cause.
Speaker 2:When she get a job, when she get a job and she go. Dad, what you want for Christmas? Minimum $400 goodbye. I'm running it up the goal.
Speaker 1:The goal is for her to want to be, to want to buy you Christmas gifts. Oh yeah, that's why I'm running it up like you want her to be, like you know what.
Speaker 2:Minimum.
Speaker 1:I want to spoil you dad. Minimum. That's what you want, yeah, but she doesn't have to. So you had a good week. Huh, yeah, we had a good week. That was your week. I didn't talk about mine. Well, that was a good moment for us, is what I'm saying? That was a good moment for us. The rest of my week was pretty alive and you was dead. Yeah, I hit the gym. That was good um I got hit.
Speaker 1:Yeah, when did I get hit? Oh goodbye. Um, yeah, the gym was good, except for when, okay, so I mean, it was one of my upper days, but it wasn't my bench press day, because you know, I'm trying. I'm trying to, um, get to like that five. Well, I did get to the five once, but now I'm trying to get to the five. Well, I did get to the five once, but now I'm trying to get to the eight. In case I haven't updated you guys, I did officially do five reps at 135. We don't have to update people. What are you doing? I'm going to update you, update them, I can update them. I don't do my weight. So I officially bench pressed five reps at 135.
Speaker 2:So now.
Speaker 1:I'm trying to get to the eight. However, I feel like I haven't been able to get back to the five because I keep getting to four and then I just I think that that's what.
Speaker 1:That's what Joseph said. Yeah, cause I spotted you and I was like you, you had at least two more. I did the, in all fairness, the last one that I did. We had a miscommunication because I was shaking my head like no, no, no, don't pull up the weight, and you thought I was saying no, no, no, I'm going to die. Pull up the weight, I can't let you die.
Speaker 1:Pull up the weight. So when I was on my last rep and I was pushing it, I looked at him and I was like no, no, no, cause I could see him like reaching down, like above me, reaching down, and he was going to pull that weight up. And I was like no, no, no, no, no, no. But he thought I was saying like no, no, no, no, yes, pull it up. But I was saying no, no, no, no, no, like I can push it out I.
Speaker 2:When you mess up mine, it don't count. Now I got to do it again. It don't count.
Speaker 1:So yeah, but other than that I had a good week.
Speaker 2:Well, my week was exhausting. I'm still tired. Okay, I feel like it has been nonstop stop and go since Friday morning, yeah.
Speaker 1:Holidays, your kid and her holiday stuff.
Speaker 2:And not to not.
Speaker 1:Are you going to talk about?
Speaker 2:Talk about the choir, the choir, and then the fact that we found out on Monday we found out on Monday at 3 pm that she had a choir concert at 5.30 pm that we had to come right back.
Speaker 1:For yeah, I said Phoenix.
Speaker 2:I'm sorry, dad. I'm sorry. I said first, it was this damn Christmas gram this morning.
Speaker 1:I said, oh yeah she, she got Christmas grams last week. Now, normally the teacher is really good about giving us messages about what's in their backpacks or, you know, sending home notices and stuff like that, but she didn't say anything about the grams and so Phoenix had the whole gram sheet, like the candy grams you sent to, like your friends and your classmates, and she gives it to us Monday morning. And it's the last day to turn it in and of course, it has to be cash. How many, how many people still carry cash?
Speaker 1:Hookers and hoes, stop it. Yeah, so I was like girlfriend, and then we still had to go to the gym, so, and we had to do grocery shopping, so we had to still run the errands. Go get changed, come back to the school, fill out the candy gram yeah.
Speaker 2:So, like I said, my week has been tiring. Yeah, because I've been trying to maintain my gym schedule, my walking schedule. My walking schedule has been all over the place I've had to walk, but you've been getting it done, and that's what matters. I'm dedicated, oh dedicated motivated. I'm dedicated. I'm motivated. Dedication. So my week is exhausting and. I'm, and next week is Christmas, so it ain't gonna be no better no, it's not. And then after Christmas, it's New Year's and then this one's birthday, and then it's my birthday and then she like and she like, take a month it's my birthday month.
Speaker 1:Yes, okay so, but he's used to it.
Speaker 2:So if y'all want to send her something, send it, because I ain't getting her nothing. All I got is love and affection. That's all I got to hand out.
Speaker 1:Wait, a minute. Wait, I saw something funny today on TikTok. She was like Christmas is in nine days and I don't even have the thought that counts.
Speaker 2:Right, right, right. That's how I thought about your birthday At first.
Speaker 1:First, it took a second for me to look for my brain and she was like I don't even have the thought that counts. I was like damn, not even the thought that counts. She was on the phone, that's right. She was like I don't know what I'm supposed to be doing. But it's just funny that I feel like with some people, when Christmas comes around, you act like as if you didn't know Christmas was going to be here. Like, why is Christmas such a surprise for everybody? You knew.
Speaker 1:Christmas was coming in November. You knew it in October, when the christmas sales started when the black friday sales started like and I'm sitting next year.
Speaker 2:I promised you I'm gonna put a note in my phone. Uh-huh, I'm gonna.
Speaker 1:We're gonna start christmas shopping on her birthday uh-huh, and you know, you said that for, like, I don't know what we're gonna hide these gifts right, because she like to sneak around and look at stuff.
Speaker 2:But yeah, on her birthday and right now I'm thinking about we still you can't, you can't keep nothing in though.
Speaker 1:Okay, well, it was for you again. Um, right now I'm thinking about we still had to go buy a christmas dinner yeah, but I but I told you for christmas dinner because, for one, there's not going to be a lot of us here because we we're not traveling, or this year we're going to be home and you know it's, it's pretty much going to be us and like my parents, so we don't need to do like the big spread like a Thanksgiving spread and I only, I only desire a few items like my staples.
Speaker 1:If I just get some yams dressing, mac and cheese and a chicken thigh, I'm straight. We don't need to make anything else outside of that what? Are you going to make?
Speaker 2:I don't know. I'll probably make a roast or something. Huh, I don't know what we got today. I don't want to think about it.
Speaker 1:Is that the rest of your week?
Speaker 2:It was exhausting.
Speaker 1:Okay, that's what you want to say, I feel like your weeks are always the same.
Speaker 2:I feel like you're always it's.
Speaker 1:That's why I always tell you you need to change your, your self-talk, because your self-talk is always I'm tired, it's exhausting, I'm beat or it's not my.
Speaker 2:it's not my self-talk, it's my reality. I am tired right now.
Speaker 1:I'm tired too. I'm tired too, but I mean, the more you keep. What I'm saying is the more you keep saying it, the more like what you think about you bring about.
Speaker 2:So, if you keep harping on it, let me ask you this have I not gone to bed earlier than normal these past couple of days?
Speaker 1:I don't know what you consider to be earlier than normal, because you came to bed after 10 last night. No, I did not. Yes, you did Okay. So I'm not sure. Like early for me, like coming to bed early is like 8 o'clock what we got today, but you ain't been coming to bed like that early what we got today.
Speaker 1:Don't cut me off. I'm done. Don't cut me off. You act like you've been getting into bed at 7. Cut the day. I want to Jeez If you would like to. I mean you can. The schedule don't allow it For seven. Yeah, I don't know. On Tuesdays and Fridays you can't.
Speaker 2:Monday either.
Speaker 1:Oh, I guess not. Well, today I just wanted to have, like you know, a little fun. I wanted to play 21 questions.
Speaker 2:Oh wow, all right, 50 Cent. Can we play 12, 12 questions? We can do 12 cause I'm the classic, just like cause you're. I can't say that oh wow, what was that? Don't worry about it it's alright babe it'll come to me dyslexia there it is. I have my moments.
Speaker 1:Don't touch me, don't touch me, but when the camera's off, you're like touch me. No, I'm not, not this week.
Speaker 2:Here you are, you're like not this week.
Speaker 1:Give me hug, give me kiss not this week.
Speaker 2:Goodbye, I'm not gonna tease myself, alright, so go ahead y'all. We got these 21 questions she want us to answer, so we gonna take turns asking these questions and answer them. I hope this is entertaining to y'all. I just she literally just gave me these questions, so I don't know which ones I'm supposed to ask and which ones I'm supposed to answer, but we're gonna. Whichever ones you want, we're gonna. We're gonna. We're gonna let her start.
Speaker 1:We're gonna come on, okay go ahead and ask I'm gonna start, okay, yeah, uh, what's one of your favorite memories of us? I have a lot of favorite memories. Okay, what's one of your favorites I want to hear. Tell it, tell it to the people.
Speaker 2:It depends on the era.
Speaker 1:Babe, don't complicate it. Just tell me about one of your favorite memories of us, and why. And why. Yeah, make it appropriate, deville. Okay, I can't, in the words of Phoenix. Make it appropriate, make it appropriate. Make it appropriate To me, honestly, yeah, why does it?
Speaker 2:appropriate, make it appropriate make it appropriate.
Speaker 1:Um, I probably to me honestly, yeah, what am I? Why does it bring such a big smile to your face?
Speaker 2:it really does for me, honestly, my favorite like memory of us is when we were in high school uh-huh, and I was walking you to, I think, biology class or something, okay, and when you said, and I was like david, your lip gloss is uh shining or a robert or something, he's like yes's bright, like bling, bling, bling, bling.
Speaker 1:I forgot about that one. That made me laugh, because you used to say that all the time.
Speaker 2:It made me laugh. I don't know why it made me laugh so hard. It made me so happy when I heard you say that.
Speaker 1:I don't know, because you looked so cute when you said it and our memory on that is like different, because I could have sworn I was talking about my shoes remember the silver loafers I used to wear. It was in my lip gloss. Okay, um, what did you first find most attractive about me?
Speaker 2:that ass you was walking across the corner. I didn't tell this story me time. You was walking across the corner. I said look at that ass, my god. I said they built like that in middle school. I said she must be new here.
Speaker 1:I ain't never seen her.
Speaker 2:I ain't never, I ain't never, I ain't never, I ain't never seen nothing like that. I'm trying to see what that be like.
Speaker 1:That's what 12 of you were saying.
Speaker 2:Yeah, I was 12 or 13. I don't know. That's what you were saying. I know. When I saw it, both heads were in agreement.
Speaker 1:That's what I know. My goodness, that's what I know. I'm happy I wasn't a preteen, or teenage boy. I feel like that would have been rough. What's your happiest moment from our wedding day?
Speaker 2:You walking through the casino with two drinks. I'm all married now.
Speaker 1:Turned up. I was turned up. I was like I was married now.
Speaker 2:Drunk as shit.
Speaker 1:Yeah, I was pretty litty.
Speaker 2:Okay.
Speaker 1:I was pretty litty.
Speaker 2:Pretty, litty Pretty litty, alright.
Speaker 1:Okay, how have we changed as a couple since we first met?
Speaker 2:We older? How have we changed as?
Speaker 1:a couple since we first met we older.
Speaker 2:I guess that's about sums it up huh, when we first became a couple, we was 15 and 16. That's a long, long, long time ago.
Speaker 1:It wasn't that long ago.
Speaker 2:Don't be dramatic, many moons um, um well, I've matured a lot yes um, we, when we've been through a lot I don't know you really haven't you haven't changed that much. Okay, I think I've changed more you do. Yeah, yeah, mentally I've changed more. You've always been pretty stable and solid. Okay, again, I don't know why you pick me maybe I'm just holding you back.
Speaker 1:Maybe our future souls. Well, I don't know, Maybe when our souls wrap back around again, we'll figure that out. Um, let's see. Um, what's one thing from our dating days that you wish we still did? We pretty much still do all the same stuff, like we don't get up at 10 PM and go anywhere. Well, first of all, we did that like a couple of times.
Speaker 2:I don't wish we still do that.
Speaker 1:So that's okay with you.
Speaker 2:At 10pm I'm going to be in the bed.
Speaker 1:Well see, that's because that's your almost 40 brain, talking your 40 brain can't comprehend getting dressed at 8 to leave the house by 10 to do anything. But, your 20-year-old brain be like the turn up don't start till midnight.
Speaker 2:At this point now, when we out around 8 o'clock I'm looking at you like time to wrap it up.
Speaker 1:It's time to wrap it up Because I'd be right, listen, ret to go, ret to go, ret to go because I was just talking to when I was talking to your sisters. I said when I got home, on what was it Saturday when me and my mom and Fee went out?
Speaker 2:oh, y'all was gone all day and we were gone all day that was Sunday that was like I said listen here there is.
Speaker 1:There's no bigger excitement as an adult knowing that you finna, you finna touch down on your bed that's like as soon as I got to the door and I took them shoes off right that's why, like lord knows, I love my brother and my seal.
Speaker 2:I loved him, but as soon as we left, I by day one. All I was thinking about was my bed was my bed, and my and my shower. That's it, don't nobody, nothing, don't nothing clean my body like my shower and but don't your body just like.
Speaker 1:I just felt like because even when I, when we were there, and he was like you sleeping on the couch, I was like I got, I gotta try. I gotta try to mimic my bed as much as possible.
Speaker 2:I said because I cannot get comfortable for nothing let me, so let me ask you some questions here.
Speaker 1:Okay.
Speaker 2:So here's one for you. What's something small I've done recently that has made you feel loved?
Speaker 1:Something small that you've done that made me feel loved. I feel like you do a lot of little things like that all the time.
Speaker 2:I try to speak your love language.
Speaker 1:Yes, like getting me my favorite snacks without me having to ask. That's a really big one. Okay, my red vines.
Speaker 2:What's something I've done. Let me see. I've got about 10 in my head right now.
Speaker 1:Recently, recently. My memory is terrible. You know that, not when you're mad at me.
Speaker 2:You recall the time. The second, the place, the geographical location.
Speaker 1:Let me see, man, we are on the clock, I know, Like I thought you had, because I'm really trying to think of like a good one. I mean because you do little things for me all the time. Like you made sure that the house stayed quiet when I was sleeping, when you came in and then my phone had disrupted me, but before then you made sure to keep everything quiet. Like all those little things make me feel loved because it makes me feel like you care and it makes me feel like you notice things.
Speaker 2:I'm going to look here, I'm going to start putting your phone on. Do not disturb myself, right, because you just won't do it.
Speaker 2:Because I need to get my phone calls. I need to bring you over to the dark side, because when I go to sleep, my phone call will do not disturb. I know, and the only person that can call me is you. I know and I tell you, babe, I'm going to go to sleep, so don't call me unless you absolutely need something. I know. Okay, let me ask you another one, because that was that was starting off rough, okay, is there anything you feel we could improve in our relationship right now?
Speaker 1:um being more consistency with our date nights be more consistent, consistent, like in yeah, the consistency with our date nights, because we started off strong in the beginning of the year. We did, we did, we started off.
Speaker 2:I mean we started really, really, really strong. It's funny you say that because I got an email today from Improv.
Speaker 1:Oh, did you.
Speaker 2:And guess who got the Improv this weekend? Who? Nate Jackson, see, and I love Nate Jackson.
Speaker 1:See.
Speaker 2:But the shows are sold out.
Speaker 1:We started off really strong because we had said I was gonna yeah we're gonna get back to like making sure we have our couple day nights we do. We do have our couple day. Every friday we go on a double date with our couple friend and I do. I love that okay um, but just like you and I, I also still like just spending time with you like I love our fridays, but I also would love to like get dressed up like I normally do.
Speaker 2:If you act right, you might be a Dwayne's on the third. Oh my gosh little lobster bis, if I act right, little lobster bis okay, continue sir little tri-tip. Oh, those bit, those ends, yeah, yeah you might get on something, something a little Michelin. You know what I'm saying. So how would you describe our relationship in one word?
Speaker 1:Magnetic, not magnesium, bye Citrate.
Speaker 2:Glycinate, so why magnetic?
Speaker 1:Because I feel like we're always drawn to each other really yeah, those are you today oh my gosh, it's not like we're glued at the hips every two seconds, babe, just just I just want you to recap your mental state and your attitude today my attitude was and we're drawn together.
Speaker 2:Yeah, okay.
Speaker 1:No, I mean I'm always drawn to you no, them hormones.
Speaker 2:Had you pushing everybody no?
Speaker 1:you know, you're just saying because I had, and you know, and I do want to say something, I do, I do want to say something, um, because how we resolved what could have turned into that was a mini argument growth that was really good. High five, yeah. High five, yeah. I hope you saw the error in your ways, but high five, that was good Okay.
Speaker 2:What's something you're you're really grateful for today?
Speaker 1:My family, you and Phoenix Hands down Absolutely.
Speaker 2:So generic.
Speaker 1:It is generic, but it's. It's the truth, okay, the absolute truth.
Speaker 2:Okay, the absolute truth. Okay, I have another question. Let me ask you. I have to set a precursor here, okay, besides, besides, beside, oh my God.
Speaker 1:I love it. This is why I love you.
Speaker 2:Okay, whatever?
Speaker 1:Besides.
Speaker 2:Besides Toyota Sequoiaia? What else? What's something, what's something you've been thinking about a lot recently, besides that damn car? Did you say corolla, no, oh because if you send me one more video, I got the hint, I you know, aside from the sequoia, the Highlander Platinum.
Speaker 1:Do you want me to go down the road.
Speaker 2:Okay, what's something that's not a vehicle? That?
Speaker 1:you've been thinking a lot about recently. Okay, being able to get away with you.
Speaker 2:Like for as far as us being able to do a getaway with just us get right just leave the kid somewhere, just do a getaway, I mean I guess somewhere safe, but leave you know what I mean.
Speaker 1:I guess I guess somewhere safe you know what I mean.
Speaker 2:Yeah, we're safe, but but leaving her yeah you know, okay, okay, all right, okay, oh it's my turn, no it's my, yeah, it's your turn.
Speaker 1:Okay, what's a dream or a goal that you'd like us to work on together? I feel like we're kind of working on one, but Well, the podcast is one.
Speaker 2:I think this is great. I mean cause we. I think this has made us closer. But I would also like to Christian a lot of resorts together okay, balconies okay maybe get a sandals membership okay um, yeah, okay, and I also would like it's not even like for us, I guess it's kind of for us I would. I would like to see our daughter in this upcoming gymnastic season perform well, above what she thinks she is, and like watch her grow.
Speaker 1:That'd be cool.
Speaker 2:Like to see her grow for her goal, because I really think that once she goes to competition, I feel like there's going to be a switch kick. Like how, in dance, where she just like turns it on I think she's going to turn on and I think, because she's so competitive, it's going to be like oh no, I need to practice.
Speaker 1:I got to get better than this. She'll be good. Where would you like us to travel to next as a couple? As a couple, I know where I want to go next.
Speaker 2:I want to go to this. It's not even that far. Oh, there's a bread and breakfast outside of Carlsbad, california. Oh, when you said Carlsbad, I was like New Mexico not New Mexico now by now by San Diego, but it's up in the hills, like on the way, like like halfway between San Diego and Oceanside right okay and it's like up in the hills and the mountains, a lot of greenery and it's like it's a whole lot. I'd like to go there for a weekend with you.
Speaker 1:You know, that's like my zhuzh.
Speaker 2:Is it your zhuzh yeah?
Speaker 1:Is it that perfect amount of dew in the morning where you can sit outside?
Speaker 2:and have a cup of coffee. I said you got a little wet, didn't you? Oh?
Speaker 1:my gosh. Okay, what's something new you'd like us to try together in the new year?
Speaker 2:I think I'm not ready. I think you're more ready than I am, but I would like for us to go to a powerlifting competition together.
Speaker 1:Okay. So it's so funny that you said that, because there is one happening January 11th.
Speaker 2:So I went, I'm not going to compete. I know you're talking about you're talking about.
Speaker 1:I know, but I went and I looked at it because, uh, Tamra Wilcott is going to be putting it on and so I was just like they have like an amateurs one right.
Speaker 1:And so I went and I looked at the registration and everything and I was like, and so then I, you know, you go down the rabbit hole and you kind of see some of the people who like are already in there and even in some of the amateurs, and I was like I don't know if I'm, I don't know if I'm like really prepared for that right now, but I feel as though if I put that on my goal list, that I could probably like prepare for that for next year.
Speaker 2:Yeah, for next year.
Speaker 1:So then I can like get a little bit of coaching, get my techniques down, probably increase my weight. You know what I mean. Like dial in a little bit, but I don't want to just go out there, you're not taking the creatine. So I don't know if you're serious. I don't want to just like go out there. But yeah, but I do. I will feel more confident if I can get a part of the 600 pound club If I get part of the 600 pound club then I will.
Speaker 1:But are you going to take any steroids? It's not that serious.
Speaker 2:It's not that serious, it's never that serious.
Speaker 1:We can take this out together. I mean, it depends on how obsessed I become, but right now it's not that serious. Let's see, what did I ask you? Like I said, what did I ask you? Oh, okay, okay, you ready. What do you picture our life looking like in five to 10 years?
Speaker 2:In five years we're going to have 11 year old, so that's already depressing Because I don't want her to grow up.
Speaker 1:In five years. Yeah, she'll be 11.
Speaker 2:No, she'll be 12.
Speaker 1:She'll be 12. Oh.
Speaker 2:Lord Jesus, who's going to teach the kids? I'm yeah, she'll be 11. No, she'll be 12. She'll be 12. Oh Lord Jesus, who gonna teach the kids? I'm tired, Sorry y'all, She'll be 12. And that'd be interesting to see. Oh gosh, Free team Phoenix, but in five years. So you know, I think in five years I'll start transitioning and I'll probably have a different mindset financially because I am eligible for retirement in 10 years. So I'll probably have a different mindset financially because I am eligible for retirement in 10 years.
Speaker 2:So I'll probably be like thinking about what you want to do, what I want to do If I want to actually keep doing what I'm doing Right, or actually retire, but I would. I would like the whole. I would hope that you know this production is a lot more grand.
Speaker 1:And because retiring at 49 sounds great. It does, it does sound great.
Speaker 2:Like it sounds really great. But my daughter gonna say, with that, I want to go to the olympics, I gotta pay for it, so I gotta work I don't, I don't think that's how that works, but okay, uh.
Speaker 1:What legacy or traditions would you like to create for our family?
Speaker 2:legacy. I think we're already doing part of the legacy as far as like setting her up to where, even if we meet an untimely demise, she's taken care of and we she will have that Like we actually have wealth that we're going to passing down to her.
Speaker 1:Okay, right, so I think the financial aspect of it.
Speaker 2:Um, I would like if, if it was more feasible for us, I would like for us to actually see family more often. I mean, we're kind of like in a tough spot because the family is so far away.
Speaker 1:Everyone's literally spread out everywhere.
Speaker 2:Right, so it's like 13, either. We got to like your sister's five and a half hours away. My brother is four hours away. My mom and my sister are 13 hours away. Yeah, so it's not like something we can just like hey decide to go see family this weekend, Something that has to be planned for, especially like with her schedule. But I would like to have a tradition to where we can probably, you know, get everybody together once a year and we can communicate, Because when we get together it's always fun.
Speaker 1:Oh, always it's loud and she, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2:Gabrielle, I'm watching you. I'll go watch it. Goodbye, oh, it's for me, sorry. What's one thing you think I do really well as a partner? I know the answer to this one.
Speaker 1:It's not that If that's what you're thinking, you don't know what I'm thinking.
Speaker 2:Wow, hurtful.
Speaker 1:No One thing I think you do really well as a partner is cater to my needs when you are aware of what I'm needing at the moment.
Speaker 2:All right, you're right, you are I will say that Not too much on me out here, because my DMs are dry. Keep them that way, not too much.
Speaker 1:Goodbye, my DMs are dry. Keep them that way, not too much Goodbye. Yeah, I really would say that when you are aware that there's been a shift in me, or you see that I'm requiring a little bit more attention, or that I need a little bit more care, or I just really need you to not be in my space, Not be in your space.
Speaker 2:Look here. That's one thing I've picked up on. Let me make myself scarce.
Speaker 1:This is not the time. Like, if you see that I'm not feeling good, it's probably not the time to ask me to like get something for you, Okay. So when you're aware, you are really good at that, but when you are not aware I'm bad, it's not great.
Speaker 2:Maurice, read the room. My bad, let me leave.
Speaker 1:That's what I always do. I always say you are not reading the room. Read the room. This is actually pretty fun. I'm the only person in it, so it shouldn't be that difficult to read.
Speaker 2:I think this next question. I'm really quite interested to see what you're gonna say. Okay, what's one habit of mine that you find endearing?
Speaker 1:um, a habit of yours that I find endearing is that you make the effort to stay connected to your brother and sisters. Oh, that I really, I really do enjoy. I the past couple of months since you've been home, I feel as though I talk to them every day. I feel as though being able to talk to your brothers and sisters literally every single day for hours on end has really helped you get through what you've been going through the past couple of months.
Speaker 2:That's exactly what I told my therapist too. I said honestly. She was like I said honestly, she was like I said honestly. My brothers and my sisters have been my lifeline.
Speaker 1:Yeah, that's the one place, even though I don't feel like my wife judges me.
Speaker 2:Obviously that's a lie. I just I do feel that I'm able to say more things and be more open and honest with my brothers and sisters, maybe because you know we have a we a lot more relatable, not relatable to my situation yeah, but relatable to like our background stuff like that, I just feel I don't know somewhat safer.
Speaker 1:I think it, I find I does it. Does it ignite something for like the child in you, maybe a little bit? Yeah maybe a little bit yeah, but I, I genuinely I love that like shout out to my sister kishanaonna, she's rich, she's rich. So she needs to just go ahead.
Speaker 2:When I said that, all I heard was her voice in my head saying good damn bye, Maurice.
Speaker 1:That's what she said. Good damn bye. And then Lottie, not too much on my sister, but yes, I love that that's diabolical.
Speaker 2:I love that they diabolical.
Speaker 1:I love that, like they all get on FaceTime and they're up to about 11 midnight playing video games together. So it's just wild that he said he's been going to bed early look, I said this wild, I didn't say always.
Speaker 2:We're only up that late because my brother's not free until the kids go to bed. I know so. And free until the kids go to bed.
Speaker 1:I know, and lucky for you, you don't take care of bedtime half the time. So look, even when I try, she's like not too much on you.
Speaker 2:When I try, she's like I just want mommy.
Speaker 1:That's because I listen to you when you're doing bedtime and all you're doing is rushing through it and then you think she's just supposed to go to sleep and then you can get out of Dodge.
Speaker 2:I'll be reading her stories, I'll be like into the character, I'll be giving her a whole show. Anyway, if you could describe me in three words, what would they be?
Speaker 1:Um in three words strong, sensitive.
Speaker 2:Okay, here we go.
Speaker 1:Um and hothead Um.
Speaker 2:I don't like you at all.
Speaker 1:What, what.
Speaker 2:What's he? Saying what's something you wish I knew about you, but you haven't shared yet.
Speaker 1:Oh, this is good.
Speaker 2:What's something you wish? I knew about you, but you haven't shared yet I feel like I've shared everything with you, you should have. But come on, let them secrets out. I know about the shopping, so you ain't hiding it, you. But come on, let some secrets out. I know about the shopping, so you ain't hiding it. You think you're hiding it, but I know about it. I don't know what you're talking about.
Speaker 1:Yeah, I know, keep playing it. Oh, that is a good one. Huh, it's a good one.
Speaker 2:Something I wish you knew about me Again, guys, something that I wish she came up with these questions and she has no answers to them.
Speaker 1:I wish you knew I don't feel like that's something you don't know, but I mean, I guess, more of I wish that you knew that I'm not as strong as I portray myself to be at times.
Speaker 2:Oh, I know that. See, I know that. Yeah, I just let you act where I act and that's why I cater to you.
Speaker 1:You just said earlier, you know I just let you act, and that's why I cater to you. You just said earlier, you know I just need love. That's why I care.
Speaker 2:I'm like here she go, let me go in here, let me, let me, let me go, come on, baby.
Speaker 1:That's it.
Speaker 2:Because she just want to melt my arms. So you didn't even answer the question again, so we'll let that one slide. Ok, here we go. How can I make you feel more appreciated or supported?
Speaker 1:um taking initiative. That's bullshit. I mean, I'm not saying you don't take initiative take more, but take more initiatives in the areas I'm gonna be running the whole damn house. Well, I'll be. Damn well I'll be. You want me in charge of everything. I don't. I mean you don't have to do it like like on every single day, but I'm just saying like it would be.
Speaker 2:I'll take initiative today. What?
Speaker 1:what? What'd you do with the kitchen and cooking? Oh yeah, but okay. So here's the thing. Let me, let me dive in a little deeper. Okay, this is this.
Speaker 2:Oh yeah, okay. So here's the thing.
Speaker 1:Let me dive in a little deeper. Okay, this is what I mean. Okay, go ahead. Yes, I appreciate. So, just example. You will say, babe, I cleaned the kitchen, I washed the dishes, you put the dishes in the dishwasher.
Speaker 2:Great Love, that, thank you Deeply appreciate it and I put the dishes up and I washed the other dishes.
Speaker 1:Okay, love that, love that. But since I didn't clean the stove, you didn't clean the stove, you didn't wipe down no countertops.
Speaker 2:But you got dinner.
Speaker 1:You didn't sweep no floor. Like? That's what I'm saying. Like. Or wipe the front of the appliance that's what I'm saying. Like. When you clean the kitchen, you have to clean the kitchen.
Speaker 2:Don't get me wrong. I don't want to be around here doing all the things that you normally do, because I don't want you to feel like you're not useful around here. I don't want you to feel like I don't want.
Speaker 1:I don't want. We were on a really good. I don't, I don't want. Oh, this is nice. I don't want, I don't.
Speaker 2:I want you know we're we're on a good. I don't want to ruin. I guess I don't want to ruin. I guess I'll answer this. Okay, it's only just for fun if we could relive any one day of our lives together?
Speaker 1:are we well fast answering this? Sure, if we could relive any one day of our lives together, which day would you choose, and why?
Speaker 2:um, this is actually really, really simple for me. Me too, One of our, one of my favorite days of us together. It was my birthday. I don't know which birthday it was I can't not like what age it was, but the one where we went down to Long Beach. We spent the whole day together. We had to walk on the pier.
Speaker 1:Is that the one where I took you out?
Speaker 2:It was my birthday.
Speaker 1:No, when you had the roommate. Yeah, okay, yeah.
Speaker 2:Yeah. So like I feel like that day, cause I feel like we had it had been so long since we've seen each other and we were going through like such a difficult time, not only in like life, but in our, in our, relationship at the time and I felt like our time together that day really allowed us to block out all the other noise and just reconnect with each other. And I was like man, I really like this chick. She cool, she cool. This my person dude.
Speaker 1:This her and I remember that day my only goal was to make you feel special. So like that's why I got you the outfit, the shoes, I wanted to have everything laid out for you. When you, like, walked in the room after you got out the shower and you're like, oh babe, and I was like my goal was just to make you feel special, like I just wanted to make you feel special because I knew like we were going through a tough time.
Speaker 2:But I was like it was a very rough time.
Speaker 1:And I was like it's his birthday and like even however I was feeling at the time, I was like you still deserve to feel special on your birthday and I also wanted to like be in that space with you and it was a really good birthday Also like going back to the very first question you asked me.
Speaker 2:Like I have a lot of memories, Like when I think about, like it really just makes me happy thinking about them. Like another one like our Chili Cheese Fry Eating Contest oh my gosh, In the backseat of your car.
Speaker 1:How we used to use my laptop and watch DVDs in the the backseat, like we're in the movies. Date nights in the car, in the car. Yeah, those, those were the best. Now I would be down to do that again first of all, who has a dvd player we have laptops.
Speaker 2:I guess we could take the ipad and just play netflix we have a laptop, but we're gonna send that backseat, but that's so good in the bed we don't.
Speaker 1:We don't have to be in back seats anymore, we can be in the bed. Because, remember, on the drive home we used to always be like dang, I can't wait till we. That was like one thing when we'd go on dates and then you would take me home and we would sit in the car and we'd talk about oh man, I can't wait till we're driving home to our own place together and getting in the bed and going to bed together.
Speaker 1:We used to always say that when we were younger look here, I'm gonna tell you right now, right, it's every day.
Speaker 2:Um, I'm gonna tell you right now. You remember how your mom used to go like um, uh, have your boyfriend do it, oh have your boyfriend take you so. So I'm gonna tell you right now and I know your mom listened to us, so she can be prepared. What's? Gonna happen on christmas day, uh-huh, when she asked me for something and your daddy is here.
Speaker 1:Goodbye, my parents are not even together.
Speaker 2:I'm gonna say you better get your manager there for you. That's not her bed.
Speaker 1:It was hanging out today it started and when she had called me she was telling me about like they little, they little, like you know, spit they had because he had recommended the dealership or the mechanic for her to go to. Then they ended up messing up on her car. Then she was upset with him and he was telling her I told you I could have fixed the car, but you wanted to take it to them. And then she was like, yeah, but then you recommended people who couldn't fix, fix the car. And he was like that's because I told you I can fix it. I was like, oh lord, I said you got you guys, it's been over 30 years but they right back why?
Speaker 1:are we still?
Speaker 2:why are we still they right back at it?
Speaker 1:I can't, no, they can't do that they can't do that they right back. No um for me, the one day I would want to relive is my wedding day.
Speaker 2:Not the whole day.
Speaker 1:What? Oh, because I fail, it's fine. I didn't break a hip Almost, but I didn't Actually, two I mean, and it's obviously you should only pick one day Okay one, it's my wedding day. That was like I feel like we had so much fun that day. No, you had so much fun, you didn't have fun on our wedding day.
Speaker 2:I couldn't have fun. You were drunk. I had to watch you.
Speaker 1:I had my friend and my mom there. I saw you having fun. You were gambling, you had a couple of drinks, you and CJ were having a great time. We were all having a great time.
Speaker 2:First of all, me and my brother have a good time every time we're together.
Speaker 1:Okay, you were having a great time. It's like that, your brother, we right because we gonna act out. No, but I, I had so much fun, like especially after the I do's were done and we were in vegas, duh, and we had no, no kid or nothing at the time. That was the funny thing is.
Speaker 2:Let me tell y'all this story. The funny thing is, the day we got married I was still in disbelief that we were getting married why, why?
Speaker 1:Oh, because of how I switched it up on you, Because of how you switched it.
Speaker 2:So, if you guys don't know, we were planning Literally a whole wedding.
Speaker 1:Oh, a whole wedding, yeah, in the midst of the wedding, like we had.
Speaker 2:Fittings, fittings. Yeah, venues, we were looking at caterers, yep Cakes, all this, all this stuff, we're looking at all this stuff.
Speaker 1:And then one day she was I think she was trying on dresses or something I went I had to go do uh dresses.
Speaker 2:I had to go look at dresses her mom triggered her and she was like we're just getting married in vegas and I was like I came.
Speaker 1:I literally came home after that. I was like what? I came home we literally have been preparing for all this stuff. What are you talking about? I had came home, I got online, I looked at um, like the little chapel weddings, um, I booked it. I think it was like four hundred dollars, and then I had told you about it and then literally believer yeah, and then the next few days I went to torrid and got a dress and some shoes.
Speaker 1:I went to macy's, got him a shirt and some shoes. He already had pants. Um, I booked everything. We had our rings already, everything was set to go. And I told him I was like, uh, april 2nd that's. And I was like, what are?
Speaker 2:you talking?
Speaker 1:about. I said you're getting married on april 2nd. He was like wait, what the the planning is done. I said I'm done, I'm over it.
Speaker 2:We were literally planning the whole thing over it like we had and what, what I was like she's probably just mad. She'll get over in a couple of days, Cause we literally guys, we spent, like it took us like two or three days just to get the guest list together.
Speaker 1:Yeah, yeah, we were like knee deep in it and after that I was like I'm done, I'm done, I I literally lost. I was literally done. I was like I just want to be married at this point and just be done with it. And all the money that we have, we will just put it towards going somewhere or save it for the house.
Speaker 2:So we got married. We got married in April. We went to New York in May.
Speaker 1:Yep. That was about it.
Speaker 2:I'm still surprised that that happened, Because I was like she's not doing this because I had said hey, we can just go get married at the courthouse years before this happened.
Speaker 1:She's like I don't want that, I want a wedding, I want it.
Speaker 2:And I was like, oh, okay, well, this is what we're doing. And after that I was like it didn't make sense.
Speaker 1:At the time. I was young, I didn't have a lot of experience, I hadn't started paying bills at that time. I was still in college. We were paying bills in college.
Speaker 2:I mean, I wasn't paying that much. Okay, let's go ahead and do the R2 cents.
Speaker 1:So you know I didn't have a lot.
Speaker 2:Because this is getting out of hand. She said as long as you were paying, it was fine. So getting out of here? She said as long as you were paying, it was fine. So you know, once I got a little taste of it.
Speaker 1:I was just saying let's see, okay, this one, this one's, for you.
Speaker 2:Is it Okay? It's short and sweet. It must be messy.
Speaker 1:It's not that messy, I just want to hear what you're saying it's advice, you got advice.
Speaker 2:It says no, no, no, no, you gotta say it, okay, oh okay, guys, we're hopping into our two cents, aren't you okay ready?
Speaker 1:yeah, how can I get my girlfriend to sleep in a different bed? On the weekends my girlfriend comes over to spend the night and I absolutely hate it. She must be a wall asleep. She thinks how people sleep in the movies is real life. She holds my hand, lays on, lays her head on my chest, spoon position, holds me till she falls asleep. I don't mind if we're watching TV, but I toss and turn in the middle of the night and I need space and I also like it cold in the room and she wants it hot. I hardly get any sleep when she's here and I try telling her this but she won't listen. How do I get her to sleep in a different bed? Don't ask her to go home.
Speaker 2:Look here I'm going to be honest with you, my dude. You are at a crossroads. You have to decide right now whether you love this woman enough To put up with her shenanigans put up with this shenanigan shit for the rest of your life, or to put your foot down and let it be known now what I did is.
Speaker 1:You know, I do the whole cuddle thing, but eventually I'm gonna part ways we're gonna, we separate because I too, we now I turn my back, and I turn my back because we can't do, we can't stay like that at night, like it's really not comfortable to cuddle to fall asleep like that. It's not For one. Like I said before, I sleep with too many damn pillows, so I sleep up pretty much upright. He sleeps flat. Eight pillows, two massagers, a heating pad A heating pad A foot split, so it's a lot going on. On my side of the bed he sleeps directly underneath a fan.
Speaker 2:And I enjoy not waking up with allergies.
Speaker 1:So I also put a pillow in between us so that I can block the air coming from his side. So if we're watching a movie, like we'll cuddle a little bit, you know, but then eventually my arm starts falling asleep or his arm falls asleep and we and we understand- that it was a nice gesture, but it's, it's.
Speaker 2:We don't like it, we have learned their true meaning from love each other from afar. It's like she's in arm's reach. Yeah, you're right there. We love each other and we can do this from time to time, but then we can also go back, except if I'm experiencing sleep paralysis.
Speaker 1:Oh well, I didn't know, I didn't, I didn't know. But when I came out of it, you literally said you literally said why did it sound like you were trying to reach out for me? I said because I was dying, I couldn't and I couldn't move. I could, I could hear you.
Speaker 2:I knew you were there, but I couldn't move. I was like you were breathing, fine. I was like you're just doing, like this weird arm thing. But yeah, the answer. To give you advice, sir, you have to put draw the line in the sand and that's.
Speaker 1:Yeah, because that's a rough one. I mean, it's your girlfriend, like that's. You can't just start the relationship off, not sleeping together, I guess, or just tell her you don't like to cuddle like that.
Speaker 2:Or here's the thing you can wait till she's sound asleep and go sleep on the couch.
Speaker 1:No, he ain't going to do that because she come to his place.
Speaker 2:Do you want sleep or not Do? You want sleep or not. You got to pick your battle. You want sleep or not, you got to pick your battle.
Speaker 1:Alright, guys, this has been another episode of Life After I Do Podcast. If you're not doing so already, you can follow us on all of our social media platforms, that's Facebook, instagram, youtube, tiktok. We're on TikTok, you know, at least until January 19th, apparently, apparently. But if you are one of our followers on TikTok, if some of you don't know, tiktok is supposed to be planned to be banned January 19th. So head over to Instagram and follow us on Instagram.
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Speaker 2:A little over a year now.
Speaker 1:Yeah, a little over a year, but the podcast was up like seven. What was?
Speaker 2:it 730, something like 730 something percent so we want to say merry christmas, we do merry christmas.
Speaker 1:Oh yes, you will not be getting an episode next week, because it's christmas guys.
Speaker 2:We'll see you guys after the new year's we will see you after new year's.
Speaker 1:You will get an hour two cents episode at the beginning of the new year, so be on the lookout for that. Until then, you guys, have a Merry Christmas. Enjoy your families, spend the time together. The laughs, make memories, take pictures and don't forget to follow us, guys.
Speaker 2:And until then, and in 2025, look out for the Life After I Do Spades competition.
Speaker 1:Okay, Peace booskies.
Speaker 2:Peace booskies, peace booskies.
